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My Boyfriend's been ignoring me for three days:/?
11-09-2012, 11:32 AM
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My Boyfriend's been ignoring me for three days:/?
He stayed over on Friday, and we went to his friend's house. I was with my friend also. So he was kind of hinting to his friend that he wanted to have sex with me, and then my friend suddenly blurted out "its the time of the month!" which it was.. that was awkward lol. So then he was quiet for like 5 minutes and I kept asking him what was wrong but he kept saying he was just tired.

Okk we went home like 11pm and cuddled up in bed and went to sleep almost straight away. I woke him up by tossing him off.. erm don't ask it started with a rub and things went from there ahaha. Ok so then he was like "well good morning to you tooWink" Then I tried to put a film on but the DVD player wouldn't work, so i just got back in bed with him. We tried to sleep for a while but couldn't. He was spooning me and I could feel his boner.. he then slowly started taking my leggings and underwear off while spooning me, and um..tried to do anal.
The pain was horrible! I imediatley said "I'm too tired!" he said fair enough but sounded upset. I didn't want to tell him it hurt too much..idk why.

Ok so the last time we spoke was on sunday, and I started the conversation..it was on facebook. He was being really blunt with me so the conversation just died.
I tried sending him a simple "hey" text after school on Tuesday, he didn't answer.

OK so it's now wednesday.. what the hell is going on?! We usually talk all day every day but for 3 days, nothing! I'm angry and frustrated and upset.. I don't know what to do. Someone please tell me what I did wrongSad

P.S: I know he's fine because he's been on facebook and ask.fm recently. Plus one of m friends goes to his school and he's been there every day

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11-09-2012, 11:40 AM
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get him on his own and talk to him tell him that you are not interested in Anal it is to painful and if that is what he wants then he will have to find someone else i think the problem stem from that be clear about your likes and dislikes he sounds selfish best you find out now and move on then later on down the line

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11-09-2012, 11:40 AM
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You did nothing wrong! He shouldnt be getting pissed off because it hurt when he tried to do anal in you. This is what you do, don't txt him no more, dont ask about him, dont do anything until he talks to you again and he will and when he does then you can work things out because he will be ready to talk. He is probably just embarrassed and angry you rejected him when he tried to do anal. Its not meant to be put in the ass because when you go to shit all that shit is just going to come out without you pushing it out so i would not advise you to do this and yes my boyfriend tried with me and i told him no because it hurt like hell! But you dont owe him any explanation, dont let him control your body! its your body and he should respect that it hurt when he "tried" to do that. But this will blow over he will talk to you again and it wont be very long just give him about a week to cool off and he will come back around and if he doesnt then move on but im pretty sure he will just give him time and time will be a week and so far it has been 3 days. & by you txting him first and all that dont do that because he is just gonna get more distant so dont txt him, and if that will be hard for you not to talk to him in a week what you can do is keep yourself busy you know invite a friend over or hang out but i promise he will talk to you again! Take Care! <3 OH! your verry pretty! <3
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