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I'm going to lose my friend! :( help?
11-09-2012, 11:32 AM
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I'm going to lose my friend! :( help?
so there is this girl in my group who is kinda the glue for our group, without her it's sometimes quiet and not as many people stay in the circle for recess and lunch times because she flirts with guys alot and they come join our group but they leave when shes not there anyways, so this is the type of girl who takes words very seriously and goes home and thinks about it for a week and then the next week she ats like nothing happend, well it was school holidays and i havn't spoken to her in person once because shes not close with me as i dont really find facebook or texting her very amusing as her replies are short and uninteressted. So she told my best friend that she doesn't like me or hate me it's just that we barely talk even though we sit together in the same group and recently she just wrote a status going " ok u hate pretty much everyone in my group. i dont understand why u sit around us. we barely talk.i dont think we are friends. so yeah. we dont talk we dont like eachother GO AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!" there are only 4 people in our group she would say that to, me and someone else. and idk if it is me because i've told her MANY times i hate noone and i'm always nice to her, never even bitched abbout her because i hate gossiping as it comes back around but what do you guy think i should do?she not the leader of this group or anything but i just hate getting into fights and i like fixing things at the root of it's problem please help i dont want her to turn people against me ...

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11-09-2012, 11:41 AM
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Tell her how you feel,tell the people in the group see what they think,then everybody in the group ( including you) should all give her their opinions. Just tell the people in the group that you don't wanna hear what she said behind your back then,unfriend her on facebook. and block her out of your social life,so you don't deal with drama. If everybody turns against YOU,then that's about time you get new friends. Oh an this is what you should do after you block her out of your social life, take her place,instead of being "not wanting any1 turning against me" be the one who flirts with boys,and keep them coming to the group,..but still be "wanting to fix things but flirt tooSmile"
p.s she isn't a real friend because otherwise she wouldn't have been so rude too you =D

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