OMFG why is my dad chatting with other women!??!?

[mirabelle]

im a 13 year old girl.i have no siblings or close family.i live with my 2 married parents.
im not gonna confront my dad or tell my mum(shes bipolar).

on my dad's phone(blackberry bbm):
"thats a sexy profile pic,makes me wanna hold u.love u babes miss u too xx"

"awww thanks sweetie love u too xx"

"you will always have a place in my heart and i will always make time for u"

in another convo on his facebook with the same woman:
"cant wait to see u hunny xx"

"miss u so much x"

in another convo:
"just got out the shower"
"wish i was there to dry u xxx"

its definativly not my mum or family.i checked her profile:
i have her phone num,home address,name.
she lives an hour away from us.shes in her 30ies.
my dad is 51 years old and is a protestant preacher!

who could i speak too?what should i do?

btw i took snap shoots so i have proof.i know it was wrong of me to look in his messages.:-(

IM A NOT GONNA SPEAK TO MY MUM OR DAD ABOUT THIS

[Bon]

Relax, it's all a dream...

[Mir Quasem]

Ignore it.

[Georgina]

Look love there is only one person you can speak to and that's your mum here's why...

She would rather know from you
She won't want anyone else to know before her
She's far stronger than you think

Just say mum I love you and im here for you but there is something I need to show you. She will need a cuddle be brave love its not fair he's doing this and it's NOT your fault. Xx

[Sad Salmon]

Srsly, hate your dad hard and tell your mom.

[Lynn V]

If your mum really is mentally ill, then your father is a very lonely man. When a person is married to someone with a mental illness, there is no comfort or companionship, because the other person is incapable of truly being there for the marriage. So your dad is reaching out to try to be less lonely, and have a female companion. He isn’t going about it in the best way, but he deserves love, too.