My mom is embarrassed of me?

[GiggleGirly]

I have a facebook page and so does she and we're friends on there and I have other family members as well on there. And me and my best friend are friends on there too. And we joke around about stupid thins and make sexual comments, but it's just joking around with your best friend. And she and I are girls, so it's not like it's a guy and girl making sexual comments. And we only make sexual comments about FICTIONAL characters. And it's mostly through posts she posts on my wall, so people might see it. But I had a privacy setting to make it as, only I can see posts of my friends. And then this morning my mom barged in and said I better go make my wall posts private so nobody can see them. And I was panicking, because I thought I did set it, and who knows how long it's been not working? Anyway, I go and set it and the "Only Me" button for your posts are gone, so that means Facebook took it off. And when I went outside to see what my mom thought, she told me she doesn't want anyone seeing those posts and that she doesn't really care what people think about us, but she still wanted me to make them private. Then I asked her if she knew we were only joking (MY MOM AND I ARE REALLY SUPER CLOSE) and she said, "I know you guys were only joking." But then she said she just doesn't want other people seeing it because they might think her and my dad are bad parents. Then she continues by saying, "I don't want you embarrassing me and dad." And I was shocked into silence. LITERALLY! I couldn't say anymore, now that I knew how she really felt about me. Embarrassed, ashamed. Mostly about what other people think. I honestly don't care. And she said I'm not suppose to be using "the F word." Because in one comment of mine, I said this one fictional character was "hot as fuck", which isn't a big deal, really. We're still pretty tight and act like nothing happened but I'm still saddened by the thought that she's embarrassed of what her friends and family would think of me.

[danim]

I mean I understand your joking because I had friends like that and sometimes I would joke about that but the thing is that your on fb. It maybe isnt okay she said that she's embarressed but she didnt mean it the way it sounds. I'm really close with my mom and I say things I don't mean all the time when I get upset with her and she will do the same with me. I know where your coming from when your mom says that. It does hurt but remember she 100% doesnt mean it. If your really close with her you will realize she's not as serious as you think. Also I respect the fact that you didnt answer back the way I would asusme someone would. Also I love that she is one of those mother's that does give her daughter a limit of like freedom .... like rarely any parents are like that.