shes not texting back after a date?

[wazzzzup]

ok so i met this girl last week at college. we got to know each other and from day one we spent all our free time together, we sat next to each other for the lessons we had together and we were close the whole time, even though she has a lot of guys after her who wanted to hang out.

so we went to the cinema together yesterday, we had it planned as a group (bringing a friend each) but both of our friends dropped out, so we went together. we had a couple of hours to kill before the movie started so we went to get a drink and had a chat. we spoke about a lot. she really opened up to me and told me about her parents divorce, her self harm, guys that have tried to use her (and some succeeded), and what she wants from a relationship. she told me all of this and we had a lot in common. i even told her i was a virgin.

we watched the film and we both enjoyed it, and i asked if she wanted to go again sometime and she said yes.

after we had left i was bored at the bus stop and sent her a text thanking her for the day. we both sent a few replies then she suddenly stopped and would message me once an hour, then stopped totally. so i didnt want to hassle her and said goodnight (after 3 hours of no reply). bear in mind we normally text pretty often if not constantly when were not busy.

today she messaged me saying she went to bed really early, so she didnt reply. which was a lie because she was on facebook all night and changed her profile picture after midnight. i sent my reply and she hasn't replied since.

so weve gone from talking constantly, to not at all. i can totally understand if the texting is a bit excessive and shes being slow about it because shes busy. but why would she not bother replying and then start lying??? im gonna see how she is tomorrow at college but i really cant understand why she would basically ignore me.

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Ditch the whore. I'm not even joking, I met a girl, who gotten used, was trashy and into self harm and me being a decent guy I wanted to just, be with her and save her in a way but just be with her, and I felt 'Special' that she opened up to me but the fact is she will screw you over hard, I'm telling you, If you try to pursue her and end up losing your virginity your going to feel like an idiot like I did. Find someone different who has there head intact.

Also if she is saying 'I'm not ready for relationship' don't try to make up excuses for her by saying 'Maybe it's because of her past' because the B*tch I was with done the exact same thing, sh*t it sounds like it's the exact same girl, I'm telling you forget her, trust me, also same story with the longggggg waiting for a reply due to texting, she is most likley seeing someone else, and ONLY enjoy's your comfort and nothing more

[Lux Aeterna]

I'd imagine that she is confused. Give her space, she doesn't sound ready for anything more than friendship and probably felt like it took a turn to something further too fast.

[Caroline]

Could it be something you said in a text-massage? Maybe people are making fun of her for going out with you or something. No offense because i have no idea what you look like but maybe that's it. That has happened to me before. I dated a guy and everyone made fun of me for it so i ignored him. Im really sorry about your situation. You sound like a really nice and sweet guy.

[When u know it :)]

Maybe she liked you, but doesn't want to rush things and come off desperate. Maybe she just sees you as friend and nothing really more to it and why are you stalking her on Facebook!? Lol every girl needs some space we cannot just go about an text a guy all day..

[Summer]

Don't sweat it. Just wait for her to come to you

[Lucia]

Let it go for whatever reason she's not interested anymore

[The Naked Troll]

You should definitely text her more then, two or three times a day at least. You know, to really remind her that you are out there and are too desperate to take no for an answer.

Women have a way of not saying that they are not interested (or not as interested as you are) when it would be really quite helpful. They never want to actually just say it and so just hope that you will understand without being told. Back off and completely stop calling, if she contacts you again lovely, if not then she didn't want you and hanging round like a bad smell isn't going to change her mind.