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Am i wrong or is my boyfriend just over controlling?
11-09-2012, 11:37 AM
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Am i wrong or is my boyfriend just over controlling?
My boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 3 years. We always go everywhere together and we rarely give each other an opportunity to go out with other friends. Last week, it was my friends birthday and we all went clubbing for a girls night out which was fine with my boyfriend at the time. I recently got facebook, as i found it extremely hard to communicate with my friends and overseas relatives. Anyway long story short, when i went out i posted a few pictures on facebook and all of a sudden my boyfriends family is questioning why he didnt come with me, and why my facebook profile picture isnt him. Ive had three facebook pictures, 2 of myself and 1 with my best friend but i still have other pictures of my boyfriend there so everyone knows we are together. So basically, his family is talking crap about me because they are 'worried' that other might be wondering what im doing going out without him. We are only 19! Ive hardly experienced the world and i never go out because he is always fearful that his family will say something about me. I love him and i would never cheat on him, but it really hurts me to see that his family basically stalks my every move and it hurts that i cant do anything without worrying about what they might say. I dont understand how having a facebook picture of myself is being 'unfaithful'. Sometimes i just want to be with my friends! He doesnt have to be around me all the time, i feel like i need space. I dont want to be in a controlling relationship! I dont know if im wrong or if he is just over controlling?

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11-09-2012, 11:46 AM
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His family should not be in your relationship in the the first place. What happens between you guys should stay there. Block them from seeing what you post.

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11-09-2012, 11:46 AM
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We all need our own space it's unhealthy to be together ALL the time.
Maybe you should limit what these relatives can see on FB!
Have a talk with your boyfriend your relationship is between you and him not you and all his family !
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11-09-2012, 11:46 AM
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His family has no right to be intruding in your relationship. It's none of their business.A relationship is between two people, not the whole world. It's ridiculous for them to be thinking that anyway. Facebook can come in the way of relationships for some, I know it did for mine so I deleted it. If you want, you can hide your activity from his family. Just go to settings and you'll see how. Don't worry if they trust you or not, it doesn't matter. All that matters is if your boyfriend trusts you and if you trust him.
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