Should i change my self ? girls, need mature answers ..?

[Deepika]

hey im a 15 year old girl .N i lac confidence . a normal 15 year old will abuse or have many boyfriends for time pass but im just opposite of that.. recently something happened which made me cry i was chatting with my friends on facebook and was commenting on a post in a group and some guys started flirting and i didn't like that so i just said that please im not interested in this crap so one of them started abusing me but i just said mind ur tongue and then those boys were making fun of me and they said some really cheap things .. and one of them said that she's a kid grow up girl flirting is cool n all .. i felt very bad at that time .. if there was any other girl she must have abused them back and stoped herself from being a fool but i made a fool of myself and i really hate my self .. i dont abuse, if someone misbehaves with me i get scare.. people say that deepika ur really sweet and my parents are very happy from me but i am unhappy from my self this was not the first time many times boys miss behave with me , abuse me and make fun of me thinking that she is a kid she cant do anything and i hate that im very uncool my friends have cheated me used me n i hate myself allot

[Tash]

I'm 15 and I've felt pretty down lately, but I'll say this to you, no matter what happens, no matter what anyone says to you, NEVER EVER change yourself. Yours beautiful, and you're capable of doing soo much. Don't let bullies or other sad minded people take that from you, EVER. Keep your head high(:

[Jayz sharma]

Okh ...okh .....grl ....jst of 15 ...dnt b worry dear m of 18 ...infact a boy ...dnt u knw ....its ur morality..that u dnt abuse or slings...i think u should b away frm those king of guys ....i my slf dnt abuse n realy i love a girls lik u ..who realy would not lik filtr or doing non sence stuff ... U must b happy dear ...
N ya if u realy dnt lik people lik those ....
Parents hav givn u lot of socility ..n u should presurb rether then spoil it for some non sence fellows ...
B confident...ths it ....
God bless u :-)

[Meet]

If you feel good about you and your instincts then stick to your views. Many people dont find flirting that interesting. If someone bullies you then dont cower but stand up for yourself. Taking someones help, elder or any friend, will be beneficial. Also, try to ignore those boys who abuse you. Unfriend/block them from Facebook. Be a brave girl and have some confidence. Okay?

[than 35% either]

I agree with you. What
makes it so bad is a lot of the
time, there's tons of pics of
Kristen smiling at an event but
the media doesn't pick those
because it doesn't fit in to the
image of what they made for
her. A man brooding is
considered sexy while a woman
gets called an ungrateful bitch.
It's just the double standard
world we live in

[Authentic Storm]

just abuse those boys now and get your confidence back in a minute..

[tammanna]

first thing you should be proud of yourself that you are not like other girls of your age...and trust me flirting and abusing sme1 is by no means cool. Sweet girls like you are rare and so you should not change. With time you will realise your importance. I too felt the same thing when i was 15...but now in college i realise i am better than other and guys who used to make fun of me respect me now. Do things which will add importance to you, like participate in competitions etc. Groom yourself but never ever change yourself.