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Should I tell him??????????
11-09-2012, 11:43 AM
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Should I tell him??????????
Last weekend I had a little friend gathering and my friend and I both liked the same guy. At one moment he would flirt with me and sometimes flirt with her.

Later that evening our group went outside to chill while my friend and the guy I liked were left alone indoors. They got off (snogged, make out) with each other and I was crushed. People asked me if I liked him but I said no to not make things awkward since my frind and the guy I like got off with each other. I acted fine and happy but I was really hurt inside. They are having a long distance relationship (he lives a hours train journey from us). My question is should I facebook him telling him I like him? or is that just making thing complicated? and if I do what should I say?

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11-09-2012, 11:52 AM
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If u tell him, it might hurt your friend. So I say no don't tell him. Just wait till the time is right, or if you are not so close to your friend, tell him.

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11-09-2012, 11:52 AM
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don't interfere you will only create more problems for yourself and your friend,
and ask your self is it really worth it,
you will have many more crushes and missing one isn't the end of the world,
plus im hotter,
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11-09-2012, 11:52 AM
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This is one of those situations where it would only make things worse to tell him. I'm sure you've seen Romantic Comedies. It only makes things awkward and weird and just uncomfortable all around. And unlike the movies, it's not going to make him come running to you. I would tell your friend the truth. But also support her in dating him. It hurts, yes. But you weren't honest from the beginning about it. You should have told her from the beginning you liked him. Now, you have to be happy for your friend. Because he is flirting with more than one person, he could also be playing you both. I would just accept what is. But telling him will not make things any better.
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