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Get over it - help please?
10-01-2012, 09:12 PM
Post: #1
Get over it - help please?
Okay, so I like this guy, and I wrote him a note asking if he was gay. I slipped it into his locker without my name. The next day, he brought it to class and showed it to his friends and started looking for me. That night on twitter I came out to him via direct messages, at the same time finding out that he is straight.

A few months later I came out in school, although nobody knows I specifically like him. He doesn't think I'm weird though and we occaisionally talk on twitter.

I am openly gay, as I said before, but all of my friends are against me as they deem me "creepy" for being gay, but I really need someone to talk to. I need to get over him. I still have feelings for him but I need to get over him.

Do you have any tips? I feel depressed.

Also my parents don't know I'm gay.

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10-01-2012, 09:20 PM
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first off; you don't need to get over him. if you honnestly like him then you shouldn't give that up.
okay, now that i said that, you need to tel you parents. they can help you. they are hte only people that know you and can helpyou more than anyhting.
now; if you want to get over him there's a few thing syou can do. iv'e had to get over guys beofre and yes, i know it's not easy but it's wel- worth it in the long run. here's what i do.
1)block him out of your life.
delete /block hiss number, unfollow him on twitter, stuff like that. you need to try to get your mind off of him as muchas possible.
2) find someone better.
by the looks of it, this guy ain't so great. this is probably going to be pretty hard, becuaseyour mind is stuck on him, but just mingle, and flir and try to find someone else!
3)look at the future/consequences
what is this guy gonna do to make your life good? so far? nothing. if he's not doing any good in your life, take him out! that easy.

no need to feel depressed. you'll find someone who is meant for you to be with. he'll be the perfect guy for you and you'll be the happiest person alive. all you gotta do is wait. i really hope i helped. good luck.♥.

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