How could my best friend betray me this way?

[Longwaytogo]

We've been friends for 3 years and i thought she was a good friend. She was always there when I needed to talk and was a shoulder to cry on. All my other friends let me down. When I got sick, she'd always call and check up on me. She often had me over and cooked my favourite food. I was even close to her boyfriend who's a good guy. My bf dumped me over the weekend - my 2nd breakup in 2 years. Of course, I called her to tell her.
At 1st, she was understand then she offered to give me constructive criticism. The thing is, it wasn't constructive. She just went on about how I'm too negative and I like to play the victim. I snapped and told her I don't want to be friends with her anymore. She got mad and accused me of punishing her for being honest. She dragged me down when I'm brokenhearted, what a horrible person! I removed her and her boyfriend from my Facebook. How could she do this to me? How dare she criticize me like that?

[Sophie loves Sara]

i think whats shes saying is that you should be positive then love will find you please maske up with her shes trying to help

[proudBastard868]

Right or wrong, she was trying to be BRUTALLY honest. It takes a really good friend to do that.

[Jennifer Emuka]

she is only been a good friend that she is..sorry truth hurts...she knows you better...and you went far in refusing her friendship and deleting her from your social network...make up with her...try her advice...honestly do try her advice...goodluck

[WhenTheyCry]

I understand how you feel. I'm not going to be so outright like the others, because what she did didn't seem so great at the time. You say she was an awesome friend before, right? She was probably trying to be a great friend now, but did it in the wrong way from what it looks like, she wanted to offer advice, but in the honest way. I don't usually like it when people are brutally honest, but I don't think she meant it in a hostile manner. I can see why you would've reacted that way, you were already frustrated with the loss of your boyfriend and now somebody's come along who criticizes you of being too much of a victim. I would've snapped too, but like I said, I think she just wanted to help you out in a weird way. I think you should wait a while to try to get over this stuff, and then call her and apologize. I believe she should be apologizing as well. It'll take time, but you two will probably make up In my opinion, she wasn't really betraying you, but stating her opinion. Good luck, I hope this helped a bit