Is he cheating on me? should i leave him?

[PeppermInt.]

I'v been dating this guy for four months now but some things hes doing are sending red flags. We got in a fight about a month ago and he blocked me on Facebook and hasn't unblocked me since. He has a lock on his phone which i found out the password and went through it and found that he was talking to two other girls and telling one he missed her he told me he was drunk when he sent that and got mad at me for looking through his phone now he changed the lock and wont let me near his phone. This really bothers me and iv talked to him about it and he wont unlock his phone and he just keeps telling me he doesnt get on Facebook but i know he does since some of my friends are friends with him on there. Another thing is he never really likes kissing but he likes to have sex and thats just really weird sometimes he'll kiss me on the cheek goodbye. I dont really know if hes cheating or just wants his privacy hes always told me if he cheated he would tell me. We spend every night together and during the day he works 9-6 so i dont know when he could possibly be hanging out wit other people.

[Gabriela]

Well if u know he might be cheating then then break up with him dont get your feelings hurt

[Wizkid]

You should have a serious conversation with him. Reassess your feelings for one another. Tell him what's on your mind and asks if he still loves you. If he wasn't cheating on you, he shouldn't feel insecure about unlocking his digital world to you (that includes his phone, facebook, etc.). Ask him who the other girls are, but don't be too clingy. Casually mention such subjects. If he is yelling at you and consistently blaming you for your relationship's problems, he feels insecure and wishes to end your relationship. But, if that love is strong enough between you two, it will survive. MAKE SURE YOU TWO TALK OUT YOUR PROBLEMS!!!! Hoped I helped

[loudcrook566]

Hi,

From what you typed, I am getting the impression that he does not truly love you. A guy should love you for who you are and be prepared to be with you through think and thin. My impression is that this guy will not be there for you through bad experiences. You should therefore leave him.

[25thF]

He's acting weird. I don't let my sisters touch my phone because they gonna read my texts to boys and tell on me so I guess he's hiding something. I believe he is. If you don't really love him LEAVE. Why didn't he unblock u on fb? Maybe he's in a relationship with some other girls on fb. He is a player. RUN

[whisperingpartner923]

I highly suspect he's cheating. I get it if a guy wants his privacy, I hate when my boyfriends go through my phone, but to block you on Facebook?
Sure, he could of been drunk when he told that girl he missed her. But he also could get drunk and just "accidently" sleep with her.
And kissing is a sign of intimacy, a sign of love and romance. He probably doesn't really like you that much if he doesn't even like to kiss you.
And trust me, the whole "always either working or being with you" is not an excuse. Men will find ways to cheat, any time. They will clear their days to cheat. Just sayin'
Sounds like a douche to me, and you sound like you're turning the other cheek. You can do better. Break up with him.