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I have fallen out with my best guy friend.?
11-09-2012, 11:52 AM
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I have fallen out with my best guy friend.?
I was friends with a boy from my brothers school and a through him met one of his friends and we became really close. After a month or two he started saying how he thought of me as his little sister which I thought was really sweet. He has bipolar and I have depression, since we met we have always been there for each other. I have had a lot of trouble at school and Im finding it really hard to go in full time. As I look up to this guy my mum thought if she told him about my trouble he would talk to me and help me through it. So he talked to me and I listened and went back to school part time, it was going really well until half term. After half term was over I was back to square one not going in, crying myself to sleep at night and being generally depressed. My mum told my friend again and he said over facebook he wanted to talk to me. I knew exactly why he wanted to talk to me and I explained how I have been getting grief off people from all angles. He read the message and took it completely the wrong way. He replied saying he is tired of people throwing things back in his face and he's going to leave me to f**k my own life up. He also don't want to hear anymore of my bulls**t. I don't want to lose him, He is an amazing friend. I want to send him a message saying how sorry I am and asking him if we can talk about it. But I just can't find the right words, I dont want to seem pushy or annoying. Any ideas Smile
We haven't spoken since the fall-out, But I really really want to make it up to him. The friendship means to much to me, I cant just waste it!!xx
We haven't spoken since the fall-out, But I really really want to make it up to him. The friendship means to much to me, I cant just waste it!!xx

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11-09-2012, 12:00 PM
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Maybe you could wait until you find the right words.

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11-09-2012, 12:00 PM
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I'm taking you two haven't talked since..
I'd just be something like "Hey I'm sorry about what I said before, I didn't mean it in that way, I'm just going through alot at the moment, I'd like it if we could go back to how we were before! Your like my big brother and I've always felt like your someone who can make me feel better Smile"
some thing like that sorry it was on the spot! but make sure he understands mainly you weren't trying to disrespect him, or throw his kindness back into his face! and even though your going through alot at the moment, always look on the bright side Smile
If he keeps saying he's tired of this crap, it could be because He's bipolar and it would be hard for you to get your point across at him, just don't blame him being bi polar as the excuse to why he got angry! but yeah anywho! best of luck Big Grin
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