Why does he do this to me?

[secretsmile]

A work collague acts differently towards me compared to other staff members.

There has been times when he has stared at me, (into my eyes) and when I have tried to break the stare, he still holds the stare. He won't accept me as a friend on facebook, even though he his friends with everyone we work with. When I have confided in a work friend who knows us both, she thinks its not like him to behave like this. He once gave me a compliment infront on everyone (which came out of the blue and was quite random).

I have personally sent him a message explaining how his behaviour has made me feel etc, but he never responded.

Bumping into him has become awkward and because he has an easy going friendly attitude/banter with everyone else and not me, it makes me feel hurt.

He knows I am married, but doesn't know I am just about to separate. I didn't fancy him when all this started happening, but I now fancy him after spending time trying to figure him out.

[I know nothing]

What a strange character. I would say that he has some feelings there. He knows you're married so he was probably trying to stay away from you so that his feelings wouldnt complicate things.
If you were single/divorced i would assume that he would start talking to you more etc.
Just hazarding a guess.

[Ryan]

i think he likes you. maybe he's a kind of guy who's great with everybody but awkward with somebody he likes. because i have the same behavior lol.