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He kissed someone else on our date, help? (short)?
11-09-2012, 11:57 AM
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He kissed someone else on our date, help? (short)?
He didn't, I just needed a lot of answers to this simple question.

My bf of 2 years is going through recovery, last month a drunk driver hit him. His car is totaled. He keeps saying how he misses me so much and I said maybe next week I'll come pick you up and he said that'll be just what I need. A few weeks ago he was happy and opening up more and now she's shut himself out from everyone. So in the mean time until my car comes out the shop, how can I cheer him up via text/Facebook? I don't wanna come off as too nice because that can be off putting. NO, I'VE ALREADY GIVEN HIM ENOUGH TIME. I left him completely alone for a week and a half. He's JUST now beginning to come out of his shell. Imagine a little bunny rabbit scared to come to you but you know all you want to do is pet and love the bunny, you even have carrots waiting for it!

we don't like to call each other due to lack of privacy.

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11-09-2012, 12:05 PM
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GO VISIT HIM. CALL A TAXI

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11-09-2012, 12:05 PM
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there we go, can't you just go to him without a car?
I mean, you can take a cab or bus or train.
Once you are there, he'll let you in & you can talk.
It's a lot better to talk personally than just texting.
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11-09-2012, 12:05 PM
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Ok. First of all, DON"T FAKE THE QUESTION! It's super annoying when people do that. Second, he was in a car crash. That is traumatizing. It takes time to recover from that and most of the time people don't fully recover emotionally from it. He is going to have his days or just moments where he wants nothing to do with you or the rest of the world. Third, you've been dating for TWO years. He should know you and your personality by now, therefore being nice, which I'm assuming you are possibly a nice person, should just be natural. Fourth, don't compare him to a rabbit. That's just wrong. Lastly, call him. Screw privacy. I hate talking on the phone with others around, but if it's the only way of hearing his voice/him hearing yours, it may be a comfort for him.
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11-09-2012, 12:05 PM
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I would surprise him. Send him a care package or drop in unexpectedly. Its hard to cope when life altering events occur. Just hsow him that you are there for him and that you really care.
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11-09-2012, 12:05 PM
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Hey!
Ignore the people who insult you and judge you, you are desperate for an answer hence that was an attempt to get attention, I completely understand and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it!
I won't tell you to go pick a Cab or taxi to visit him since you have your reasons absolutely (:
Now thing is you need to cheer him up without being there physically hence It would lack direct human expressions, so It can be a 'lil difficult, but in no way impossible! I promise! (:
*do you love him and care for him? tell him in a more romantic way, don't overdo it, send him a poem or a rhyme saying how you miss him or need him
*tell him about the silly and cute things you have done or think of doing, guys love it when their women is being cute and silly, It would make him smile
*Talk about really random things like what would he want to be if he could be any creature or what's one place where he would want to go to then you do the same and make sure you say it in a funny way
*don't be clingy, though I'm sure you aren't, but still It's just a little warning
Here are just a few points, but you can think of more! (:
Good luck!
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