I feel extremely alone and that I have no future what should I do?

[Daniel]

I am 15, almost 16, I thought I had a few friends, but recently they have been ignoring me (all from different groups) I live in texas, I used to feel secure, but due to my "friends" whom critizised me for having a larger forehead than other people, another friend I learned has multiple personality disorder and actually is crazy whom had an obsession and stalked a girl (whom is not special at all, extremely fat and ugly, no offense to her, its just rather strange rather than a very attractive female) So today I stay after school and I meet a wiccan (I am a druid, and prefer someone of a similar religion, or atleast not christain because they were born christain) we hit it off well, I rarly talk to people well but it was great, I made jokes, I was funny, I planned to ask her out tomorrow I then look at facebook and discover she is a completly different person, a stereotypical goth does drugs and drinks, shes only 14 and not single (in fact , she knows alot about wicca, which made me assume she was legit, but she appears to do it for attention) So I went from finding a girl that fit my picture, to a girl whom is immature and attention deprived. I feel as though I am not ugly but I do have bushy eyebrows and a big forehead (pretty much the only major thing) I dont have pimples or moles.

My goal is to move to Norway to live in a country with less bigotry and more tolerance of religion.
and if I cant get into university there I feel as though if I move I probably wont be able meet anyone, I rarely am good at talking to girls or anyone, I am mature, I have a 4.0, yet when I talk to girls they see me as either a friend or brush me to the side for not liking things like rap, or because im not a christian. I am charming and funny when you get to know me, thats what I have always thought, now I wonder how will my luck change, would someone in norway wed a foreigner, would I beable to survive in a country where If I somehow fell in love with a guy (I am bi) I could not marry, would I never be able to tour europe which is my dream? I am a druid communist and I feel like there is no match for me, I have contemplated suicide, only thing was stopping me was the hope of having a wife or husband but now I wonder if the hope is just pie in the sky. I dont know what I should do.

[my name is]

Kid ur 16 relax u got time...

[GC player]

dont commit suicide, too many ppl do that. you seem strong enough to fight through. things will get better as you mature

[Hello]

Dude your 16, u havnt even lived out a third.of your life! Think about the positives in your life. And i think its really.cool tht u wnna go to norway. I root for ya!

[gMrombowoz3ia]

You are young and have a lot to live for

High school can be weird. You are growing - emotionally and physically. Who cares about your so called big forehead or brows. Get them cut. Get a hair cut that compliments your face if you want. And again who cares! People will like you for who you are, not what you look like. And you are so young - you just need to power through high school and get to your next pt in life.

Keep up the good grades, go to college, and you'll definitely make some new friends.

Do things you enjoy and just enjoy life.

Your family loves you. Your friends love you. You do not need to end your life. You are awesome. Long road ahead of you.

[Mackenzie]

I'm sorry, but I have a real low tolerance for self pity, but bear with me. You are 16 and in school... why do you have no future?

Why?

Do you really think you can't finish school, get a job, move somewhere else if you want?

Because you can... it's as simple as the choices you make with your life. You can take it in control-- work hard, save money, make plans, etc. Or you can sabbotage yourself by making bad choices that lead to consequences you'll have to deal with; or you can do nothing and just coast and wait to see what things you crash into.

Every adult was a teenager once, hon, no matter where they live. We all had our passions, our interests, our emotions and feelings, our insecurities, etc. Everyone has features about themselves that they wish they could change, and frankly mostly it's just magnified in our own heads how bad it really is-- most people don't see it that way.


Life is not the result of luck, it's the result of your choices (actions, or inactions). Don't sit around waiting for your luck to change... start making plans and working towards the things you want.

For example, if you hope to move to Norway and become a citizen, start by thinking about what jobs you could get that would help you get there. Think about a savings plan-- how much you will need to settle down there and live until you get a job. Start learning Norwiegan, which is a requirement for citizenship.