How to get over my first ever girlfriend please answer and help me!!!!?

[James]

Okay so me and my first ever girlfriend Emma broke up about 7 months ago well she wanted to be friends still so I reluctantly said yes. Well now she sort of wants me back but she keeps trying to make me jealous by saying she has all these boyfriends and it truly hurts me a lot but i'm so nice that I always try to be friends with her because I still do have feelings for her. well I have a really sweet girlfriend now named Bai (it's pronounced bay) and she truly loves me she loves me even more than Mrs Lovett Loves Sweeney Todd but i'm afraid that my feelings for my first girlfriend are going to ruin my relationship with Bai because I really really like and have deep feelings for Bai she is the sweetest girl in the world and I love her but my ex keeps breaking my heart because she wants me back knowing that i'm a really decent guy. She even drops guilt trips by putting words in my mouth saying I don't want her and that I get mad when she gets a bf which she has never had another bf other than me. what do I do??? i'm torn between the girl i love and the girl i used to love. please help I've blocked her on twitter and facebook but i always go to her page. what do i do??? please help!!!! only serious answers please!!

[Jacklyn]

It sounds like your truely in love with Bai. I would stay with her. If your ex loved/loves you so much she would have never ended it(asuming here).

[Missymumu]

I think things seem a whole lot worse than they really are. When you're in your twenties, you're going to look back at this and shake your head at the follies of your youth.

Usually, I would go into a big spiel about that, and give you no helpful advice about your situation. However, I'm beginning to realize that until you've reached an age where you can really see the things I'm saying, you're just going to get mad at me. So I'm trying a different approach here. I'm going to be helpful.

If you really do have feelings for Bai, then you'll cut all ties to your old girlfriend. You'll unfriend her, un follow her, do whatever on your social networks, and then tell her to her face to leave you alone. That you don't want to play her games anymore, and that you're with Bai now. It's going to hurt, but if you really do care about Bai, then you'll know that's what you gotta do. However, if you find yourself unable to cut all contact with this Emma girl, then you're not over her and therefore are being unfair to Bai. No girl wants to be second fiddle to someone else. You could, I suppose, try talking to Emma and still try to be friends with her, but you've got to lay down the law. You've got to tell her it's over, and if you're unprepared to do that, then you've got to go the other way.

I'm sorry if you wanted an easy fix, but there really isn't one in this situation. Liked the Sweeney Todd reference, BTW.