Meeting someone on Facebook?

[Nona Delahante]

I met this guy on Facebook about a year ago we still talk to his day, and he wants to meet me now. From what I know we are only a year apart and we both have about 10 mutual friends on Facebook. We both live in California, and we are in neighboring cities but, every time we try to meet up something always happens in my life or his so we never end up seeing each other. Should I take this as a sign? He has my phone number and we talk about everyday but I'm still scared for some reason. I want to meet him but I'm scared that he might not be what he seems. What should I do?

[Auron]

You never done like skype, camchat, or something? I'm sure that will fix your problem.

[Rosy_Posiee]

Defo ask to do a skype first.

Make sure he actually looks like who he says he is.

If he doesn't have skype or doesn't have a webcam then I would take it as a bad sign and not meet up with him.

If he is who he seems, I wouldn't meet up with him anyway, but if you still want to then make sure to meet in a public area. IE the middle of a city, maybe you can go a popular restaurant or something but just make sure it has LOTS OF PEOPLE.

If he wants to go back to his place or a hotel or anywhere that doesn't have many people... DON'T GO. Also don't let him buy you drinks.

I know think may make me seem like I;m being over the top but I'm only trying to make sure you have the lowest chance of being kidnapped/raped/killed as possible. Because it happens more often then you think.

[Remmie]

haha no its not a sign. if you both like each other you can make it happen. I know because this is how i met my boyfriend

good luck!