Ladies, Why do you gotta make guys confused?

[Tors]

In the past few weeks, I developed a nice connection with this woman at work. We talk just about everyday and if we can't talk, we always somehow someway would have intense eye contact where nothing else in the world can distract us for those moments. We have had conversations on different personal levels. She would ask me some fairly personal stuff (family, life experiences, and my preferences with women/relationships) We make each other genuinely laugh and she has gone out of her way to converse with me while on the job. Throughout all this, I never was aggressive with my flirting and I gave my best in terms of being genuinely interested in her and I actually am, but don't get me wrong, she's extremely pretty and that's the reason why I started talking to her in the first place. (yes, a bit shallow but we all are to a degree)

So, after days of self pep talks, I finally asked if she would like to hang out outside of work. She gave me a very positive "yes" and I thought all was good....until I realized that I don't have her number. I mean I could of got it through work, but that's creepy and not cool. So on Friday, (three days ago) I wasn't able to get time with her or anything so I kinda went into a panic and sent her a DM on Twitter saying "What's your number, here's my number. Look forward to hearing from you." Well I haven't heard back and there's no way she didn't see it considering I've seen her tweets.

Now I see her today at work and we spoke completely normal. I didn't bring up my bad move with the twitter message, but she talked to me and we weren't having great days and she let me vent a bit and I let her vent a bit. There was a moment when here and I were just chatting and her coworker came in nonchalantly and closed the door on us.

Now I consider myself a reasonably smart guy, but what the hell is going on here? What should I do here? Should I go aggressive and just say "look, do you really want to hang out? i sent you a dumb twitter message when I should of manned up and asked you?" or do I act like I did nothing and see if she brings something up?

I understand the desire to put down funny answers as I have done it many times, but I will appreciate any honest attempt at advice. Thanks.

[Emma R]

No offence but it doesnt really sound like you planned the "hanging out" thing very well in the first place but maybe she's just a bit indecisive wether or not she wants to go. Ask her in person for her number and see what she does, look at her facial expression when you ask for it and you should be able to tell wether or not she really wants to give you it.

It might damage your ego a bit but least you wont be wasting your time on someone that's not really interested and just wanted a good flirt like most women do.

[Candy]

You guys confuse me more. I don't understand you at all