Does he hate me or like me?

[starsummy84]

I used to be good friends with this guys in the first half of freshman year. it seemed he may of liked me back then, since we talked a lot on Facebook (since he's extremely quiet and hardly knew anybody at school except for me, since he was the only kid that came from his middle school to this high school (and hasnt really made friends since)) here are some things that may point to that he liked me back then:
-during this dinner party thing my grade had one day, i was sitting/eating alone at a round table, however, he came and sat right next to me. we talked a little and continued having little chats throughout the rest of day ( i know that's not much, but believe me, he's REALLY quiet, so this is somewhat surprising)
-he said on the chat once in a sort of way that he liked me, but may of been joking, idk, but it was when i asked him what he got for christmas and he said "i got the best gift of all. you."
-he'd often joke around with me on the chat (he is not a very open person, so surprising again), even if we talked about something serious, say concerning myself, he'd always try to lighten the mood.

but after a while, i started annoying him by talking to him at school in public a lot (i didnt really mean to be annoying, i was just trying to be friendly and get to know him better in person, but i do admit i was kind of immature about it, unfortunately, since i was a ninth grader...) so he stopped being my friend and blocked me on fb. i really wished i never annoyed him in the first place. i told him a couple of times afterward towards the end of freshman year and in sophmore year that i was sorry, but he never gave a reply of "i forgive you" or "i don't care" or something like that. sometimes i couldnt finsih saying my sorries, because my voice would crack halfway through.

however, in the beginning of junior year, i told my friend about my situation, and she said to tell him i was sorry again, and to say "i miss you" straight forward, and to tell him i was different and would like to talk again, ending it with giving him my email/cell. i tried doing just that, even saying the "i miss you" part, to which he replied "Okay." but he gave my info card back and said "i dont want to talk to you". i left the card there, so he may still have it, i dont know, but he never called or messaged me.

its weird, becuase after that, he's started looking at me more: i'll be walking through a crowd of people in a hallway, and ill catch him staring directly at me as he passes by quickly. or sometimes in the library, he'll be sitting at a desk and i'll be on the computer, and ill try to steal a glance at him (since i'm facing him, only to be blocked off by another computer other than mine), and i see that he was already looking at me and i kind of stupidly/awkwardly look at back at my computer in a quick way.

this year, i was chosen by this asian guy to be in his group with another boy to work on this history project, and my crush was suppose to be apart of it too, but he gt moved to another group cuz they needed one more member to meet the requirement. i was with my group discussing in the library, and as soon as i walked in with the boys, he looked directly at me as i followed one of them. he looked at me in a really weird way....it wasn't of indifference or anger, but just...confused? a little wide eyed? idk but it wasn't his usual demeanor.

he still glances at me sometimes in the hall, or when i pass by him, or am in the library too though.

i don't get it, what's his deal????

please remember he's really quiet and doesnt talk a lot, however, when you get to know him, he can have a sarcastic/clever/funny attitude.

[Shelly]

Way to much stuff know one is going to read this.

[sabrina]

It sounds like he is interested, but doesn't know how to handle the situation. I would suggest you ask him to hang out sometime, and see what happens. It's worth a shot!

[sabrina]

*no not know.

It sounds like you did a lot more than just talk to him in school if he's that mad at you. I would reevaluate the situation and figure out if you did something that hurt him a lot more than talking to him. You don't have to say it here, just think about it yourself.

What does the fact that your group partner was Asian have to do with anything? Just wondering...

[sirchewy]

I think he likes u.. And it sounds like he was flirting.. I think he is trying to make u chase him or he is playing hard to get.. If he likes u.. He will be back lol dont worry

[nicolle]

He doesnt hate you , he likes you just doesnt want to say it , show him you can do without you and he'll want you to talk to him

[WildatHeart]

Sounds like he may have liked you and still might. I don't know what his deal is though. If I was you I'd walk right up to that boy and tell him straight that you like him and if likes you too he needs to knock off the crap and tell you. If not, then he needs to tell you straight because he's sending you some seriously mixed signals and it's confusing and unfair to you.