Does he like me or just want to sleep with me?

[Abigail]

Okay so I met this girl named Abby and now we're best friends. I spent the whole weekend at her house this weekend. One night I wanted to get on my facebook and she wanted some privacy to talk to her boyfriend on the phone. The computer is downstairs, in her older brother, Zach's room. I went down there and got on the computer on facebook. After I was done on facebook I walked over to see what game Zach and his friend was playing on the Xbox. I watched them play video games for a while and then we wanted to watch a movie. He got the movie Jackass 3.5 and we watched that. I was laying on his bed and he was sitting on the floor leaning on the bed. I had my leg hanging over the end of his bed near where he was sitting. He kept leaning his head and rubbing my leg. After we watched that movie we watched Insidious. He kept looking up at me and smiling at me and rubbing my arm and messing with my fingers. After we watched that movie I sat next to him on the floor and we talked a little bit while his friend was playing the Xbox. It was around 4:00 A.M at that point. We ended up just holding hands and laying down with each other. I had to go into Abby's room at around 6;30 so we wouldn't get in trouble by his mom. Abby told me that he has hooked up with about 10 of her friends and that he only wants to have sex with me. She told me that the first step of him having sex with someone is always watching movies and talking. She told me that eventually he is going to have sex with me. His friend told me that she always says that and he said that Zach isn't like that and that she was probably trying to get me to hate Zach. Does he like me or is Abby right does he really just wanna sleep with me.

[dog gone it]

You are hot and LOTS of guys want to sleep with you.

[Bihzor]

Your name is Abigail and her name is Abby? Weird.
As to your question - why don't you just ask him?

[Boxer]

".....facebook....."

Idiots........



NEXT..................

[Ari]

I think you should go with your friends answer cuz she would know her brother. But if she is lying, then she isn't a very good friend. But maybe try to listen to your instincts too

[E m m i e <3]

I think Abby is trying to guide you after all this is her older brother we're talking about. Judging from the immediate contact with skin touching and rubbing and caressing, I could assume he is a very "touchy feely" person, but it could also mean he likes you AND probably wants to sleep with you. Take a look at what you said about " I had my leg hanging over the end of his bed near where he was sitting. He kept leaning his head and rubbing my leg. After we watched that movie we watched Insidious. He kept looking up at me and smiling at me and rubbing my arm and messing with my fingers. "

If You just met this guy, then immediately I would say he's looking for lust and not really love. UNLESS you're into those relationships like flings or not looking for long term, then go for it if you're up to that kind of relationship.
If you are looking for a cute-sy lovey dovey relationship or long term long lasting one, I say No to this guy. Look at how easy it was to just touch you instantly. I'm assuming you must be very attractive and that is also a plus to add onto the list of lust and sex. So yes, he likes you, BUT wants to have sex with you most definitely. The signs are there.
So now just decide if you want to go out with him and have sex and do all those things with him OR don't go out with him and wait for someone else out of your preferences.
Whatever you choose, Best of luck!

[geetarman56]

If he's already done sex with 10 of her friends, then Abby knows what she's talking about and he just wants sex and not much more. He can like you, sure, but for more than the right reasons. If he was playing with your leg and such , it's an indicator he's wanting sex with you. Not that he likes you for who you are.

[rainbow dash<3]

he wants to have sex with you , only that.

[lola]

To be honest she might just be jealous that your spending time with her brother, she may feel left out? Simple way to figure this out is to not sleep with her brother and see if hes still into you

[Dee]

as they guy above me said, you are hot and lots of guys want to sleep with you. but instead of letting him do it, why not make him work for it lol. Be one of those girls that makes the guy take her on several dates before she finally sleeps with. Or you can be that Christian girl that won't do anything sexually with a guy unless he marries her. It's a win/win. I mean for a christian s*x before marriage is a deadly sin anyway, just tell him that. PUNISH HIM BY FORCING HIM INTO MARRIAGE AND ONLY HAVING S*X WITH HIM ON THE WEEKENDS!!!!!