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High school drama.. oh god, help me?
10-01-2012, 10:49 PM
Post: #1
High school drama.. oh god, help me?
I am 16, a Junior, and I don't ever have drama. So I don't know how to deal with this. Bare with me please..

So there was this boy- "Dave." Me and Dave became friends about a month ago but we had been friends before. We just reinstated our friendship and we became BEST friends. We were with each other about 4 days out of the week AT LEAST. and that is a lot considering that we live 45 minutes from each other.

Dave and another girl- Abbie -have been friends longer. She is younger than I am.. only by a year. She and Dave have been great friends for a year(Nobody knew that but evidentally they are "like family" even though he would talk about how annoying that she was)

Me and Dave are just friends. We would message on facebook, im, skype, text, call, all of that good stuff.
One day this week we were iming and he asked me why I blew him off at a game. I told him that I had only seen him twice and that the second time he was hugging Abbie.

Well, I also joke with him about how he talks to so many girls(HE DOES) and I would say, "ohh, that's your girl Wink" but I said it about at least 10 girls +some random ladies or girls that we would see in public. It was a joke. I probably said that at least 50 times in the last month.

One day this week I started ignoring him because I was at a volleyball game. He went crazy and thought that something was wrong(just because he is paranoid)(keep in mind that I don't think that there is anything extra going on between us other than friends) He was at work and saw Abbie. He let her read his messages and she saw the one I sent (the im) about the hugging, she read went balistic.. she went crazy on me. She was texting me btw. Dave told Abbie that I had said that "he was all over her at the game"

She said that she hears that I talk about her all of the time.. I really don't. I am not friends with anyone in his group to where I would ever talk about her. I really don't talk about anyone in a hateful manner.

Anyway, he said that the girl was crying because I had made her so upset.. when in reality, I was about to kill myself because they made me feel so bad about myself. I really don't understand why they did this. My mom and I had always thought that he had a crush on me. But I just wanted us to be friends so I continued to ignore his affection)

I never said anything about Abbie that I didn't tell you about in this yahoo thing. I told Dave that I was never talking to him again because I couldn't believe what he had done.

I continued to tell Dave that I couldn't deal with this drama because I have a lot going on that nobody knows about.. let's just say that my home life right now isn't too great but I still go into public picture perfect so nobody realizes..

Dave continued to tell me how sucky his life was that he had to go to court the next day for underage drinking and that nobody in his family would go with him and that that was the first time in a long time that he had cried when nobody would go with him. I offered to. He ignored it. Even when he made me feel so bad and screwed up my sustained life, I offered to because I still feel for him. we were great friends before.

I ended up not talking to either of them.. still haven't. But they have been tweeting about me saying that someone(me) had thought that they were dating that that I talk about Abbie all the time and other junk.. they know that I don't have a twitter and they are convincing others that their life is "so popular" I guess

They are so dillusional.. I just don't get it. I don't know what I did wrong or why they did this to me like this.
Please explain.

MORE INFO: I ended up actually texting "Abbie" last night and apologizing(I still don't know what went wrong but I was hoping that she would quit tweeting about me and would give up on it)

What really upset me(other than the lies and talking about me) was that when I figured out that she was mad at me(he texted me and forewarned me about it).. he wan't even concerned about how upset I was. He only told me how bad I made abbie feel and told me that I should feel bad.

from the info given, please explain what happened and what to do. I don't understand.. it was so cruel

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10-01-2012, 10:57 PM
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god, what a babblin' lot o' clap-trap this was. Look up "brevity".

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10-01-2012, 10:57 PM
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i ACTUALLY read all that.
and the only answer i have to give is ignore them. Seriously. It will go away and they will forget about it. don't let them get to you.
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10-01-2012, 10:57 PM
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A lot of people feed off drama. Bringing you down makes them feel better about themselves, deep down they're insecure. That boy probably felt rejected by you so he wants to get even. Ignore them. Ignoring is the best way to get back at someone because it shows you don't care. There obviously not worth your time.
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10-01-2012, 10:57 PM
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i might not have read as much as "Z" did but from what i get out of it he's doing his best to control you
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