is she fake or real 10 points!?!?!?!?

[Anthony]

i need some advice is this girl real or fake so this girl that im going out with is super hot and a model and has had her pictures taken i found a profile on facebook that says she lives in a different state but i know she lives in my state and im not sure if shes fake or real because when i talk to her on the phone the city in my state that she says she lives in comes up on my phone and shes given me her address and i have sent a letter there and she has said she got it would a fake person give out there address or even talk on the phone? and when i talk to her on the phone she sounds like what her picture looks like high voice which shouldnt be a fat person and she does act like a real person she wont text back sometimes if she was fake wouldnt she want to get the guy super addicted then screw them over? her pictures are all over the internet and again i will say that she has told me her address and it is real so i need some good opinions! and we did date before but then broke up and she does act like a real person becasue she wouldnt talk to me or text me so i dont know. and i sent her 2 letters and she got both of them because she texted me and told me and when i talk on the phone i can hear her grandma say hi and there two completely different voices and she does seem like she could be real but i need some advice she lives about 45 min away and the address is legit and everything
and i met her on this website so i know its not someone playing a trick on me??
and she has told me these secrets about her and her life and stuff that has happened to her and i hearing her i can tell that she kinda has tears when it happens?

[lo_cheers(:]

Well she could be real, but it really doesn't sound like it. If she is only 45 minutes away, why have you not hung out in person yet? Especially since you "dated." In high school, my best friend and I wanted to mess with this guy who was a total player and a complete ass so we made a fake facebook with some random girls pictures, and had him text her from our phones all the time. She had this whole back story about being an old family friend from out of town who was staying with us while she worked out some issues and he totally believed it, he even sent "her" flowers, without ever even seeing her in person. (After like a month, we planned a "date" for them, he showed up, and it was just us, calling him out on all of his bs). I doubt this girl has some hidden adgenda for you but she could really just be some lonely psycho girl that you know (or maybe a total stranger) pretending to be this girl.

[broadanswer809]

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