Is my dad cheating on my mum??!?

[mirabelle]

im a 13 year old girl and i know ive asked this before but i wanna be sure...this is a convo on my dads fb(yes i know i shouldnt have)with a woman(i dont know her):

my dad:hey babes thats a sexy profile pic u got there.makes me wanna hold u xxx

the woman:aww tnx sweetie that was at a wedding in august x

my dad:before i forget:love u xxx

the woman:me too x cant wait to see you on the 12th

i didnt read the rest but on an other convo with another woman:

my dad:i want the best for u...i will always find a place in my heart for u and will always make time for u xxx

btw my dad is a 50 year old married man qnd he's a vicar!!!

im really shocked;i cant tell my mum cos shes bipolar so she wud become really depressed and ill.i cant tell my dad cos he will want to know why i was on his facebook!!

plz help!!!

Btw i have kept screenshots so i have evidence.also the convo was a month ago

[Micheal]

Maybe you should consider telling someone on your mums side of the family? Like her mum, brother or sister. It's a horrible position to be in, but if, as suggested, he is cheating he should not get away with it. Have you told a friend? Talk to your friends parents about it, I know I could talk to my mates parents. You just NEED to tell someone and soon!

[Lori]

That's crazy!
I would just tell you dad what's up, say "I went in to log on facebook and this came up and i want to know what it was"

[saachi]

this is horrible. you really need to get some elder involved. talk to somebody and show this convo to that person. what your dad is doing is not right and your mom needs to know.

[Elle Brautheighmer]

I am pretty sure, tell her, honey. It's for the best. Ask your dad what that was about, and if he threatens tell him about the screen shots then call who ever you call for cheating people.

[Georgina]

If your mum has bipolar you need to handle this carefully. Tell him you know and not to even think about having a go at you after his disgusting lies. Tell him if he do much as raises his voice you will tell your mum. Tell him if he doesn't end it with this woman in 2 days you will tell your mum. Say you want to see evidence that it's over.

You poor thing xx

[Some]

NO! Give up the chase. IMO don't get involved... Let him get far enough to distance himself from your mum!
But in the meanwhile take your mum out for dinner and support her. If you can't afford meal time then take a relaxing stroll to the park or to your friends, side by side. Anything to make both your bonds stronger IMO.

I think your dads a pervert and it can't be changed no matter how much you try.