If someone doesn't approve or ignore my Facebook request can they see my?

[Jackie]

Status updates and pics even if I'm private? Because if they deny u can't you
Click the the add as friend request again?

[abraXus]

if you send them the request, they can see your pictures, but can only see your public status updates

note: they can also see your likes and comments, and your mutual friends

you can HOVER over their friends button (dont click it cause you are in a hurry) and wait for the drop down menu, and look at the other options...

you can block them if they dont approve it... or you can add them to your restricted list....

have you read thru the facebook help pages yet? most of this is explained there