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Breese · 11-09-2012, 12:41 PM

Arrrg im sorry no way i could be bothered reading all that Sad

awesomesauce · 11-09-2012, 12:41 PM

It sounds like you guys are bad together. You are too jealous and if it's not driving him crazy now, it will be soon enough. And you shouldn't move in with him - don't move in with someone unless you already spend a LOT of time with them - and I don't mean talking to them, I mean being with them in person. Give up on this guy and find someone who lives closer to you and will tell you the truth right from the start.

Fiona · 11-09-2012, 12:41 PM

He sounds pretty unsteady, and let me warn you online relationships hardly ever work out. If you have hesitations, you should definitely not pursue the relationship on any grounds except friendship. If he cannot respect that and continues to seek a romantic relationship, break it off. If he can't respect you in this area, he won't respect you at all. From what your saying he also sounds like a bit of a chat-up.

Give it time, don't move in with him -- and try to rescue the relationship between yourself and your father, as you may find this more important.

Good luck!

Ven · 11-09-2012, 12:41 PM

You answered a question not long ago. DID YOU COPY MY ANSWER?

Cat Lover · 11-09-2012, 12:41 PM

He hasn't been honest with you from the start.
He has denied relationships that you know he had with other girls.
You don't even really know this guy!
You can't know someone unless you spend a lot of time with him in person.
Romantic relationships online are not real. They are fake.
Do not move in with him!
Why would you want to be with someone who lies?

Forget this guy. It will never work. If he wants to try living with someone just to see what it's like, tell him you aren't going to be his experiment.

Repair your relationship with your father, and next time, do not get involved with any guy online.

I repeat---you do not really know this guy! Someone online can be anything they want to be, and you wouldn't know the difference till you spent at least a year dating him in person. Don't waste your life this way! Get an education and find someone to date in person.