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Why is this girl ignoring me?
11-09-2012, 12:34 PM
Post: #1
Why is this girl ignoring me?
So I met this girl through a Facebook group created to socialize with other people transferring to the same university. I got to know her over the summer prior to moving in, and we hit it off. She moved into town a week after I did. On a Monday she texted me that she was bored and in town; I casually asked her if she wanted to help me shop downtown. We met, and it was a good, solid two hours of fun. She was personable, laughed at my jokes, and we were proactive with each others personalities; she had a job interview the following day but promised to hang out after. She was hired, and to be trained the following Monday. After the interview, she went back home to fix some drama with her boyfriend, and she didn't come back until the night before her interview (Sunday night). For her interview she had to commute to the city and the training session would last 5 hours- I had a car rental membership and she was delighted to put it to use- on her dime of course. On Sunday night she called me asking if I could buy components of her uniform at Target, in preparation for her training day. Target didn't have what she needed, but she appreciated the effort, deeming me a good friend. I slept at her place per her request since it was closer to the pick up location for the car. Nothing happened.

I drove her to the interview Monday morning and we bought all the required stuff for her work- temporary clothes for the sake of training. She seemed less happy than the day I met her. She wasn't personable. She didn't laugh. There was zero personality in the car. I dropped her off and we hugged for good luck. I did errands. In the early afternoon she called me, saying she finished training. I picked her up and the good mood easily washed away as she criticized my driving and acted the same impersonal way. She proposed that we go to the mall on the way home so that she could get more permanent work clothes. We did. I felt dumb the entire time as she seemed cynical, less of a friend and more of an assistant to a grumpy girl.

We went home and dropped off the car. We high fived each other for getting through the day. I told her there was a welcome rally for our school at 9PM that night and asked her wanted to go; she said yes and promised to call me. She didn't call. At 8:10 I called her asking what's up, and she said she was going to go with her roommate but that she would meet me. I was silent, too preoccupied with wondering why she would go with her roommate if I had asked first. I said "Uh..." and she said "I'm busy call you later."

I went to the rally with MY roommate. I didn't see her. After the rally I texted her asking if she wanted to drink and she replied "doing stuff with roomies Smile". After such a long day I posted a Facebook status tagging her as part of my day.

At midnight I was checking my Facebook and I discovered that not only had she defriended me, she had blocked me. I called her twice today, both times failed- she ignored the calls (two rings, then voicemail for the first call, one ring then voicemail for the second).

What did I do? She's not the type to judge, so she's not that bothered if someone texts her multiple times. Sometimes she doesn't have anything to say.

Also she still owes me $65 for the rental.

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11-09-2012, 12:42 PM
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Forgive me if I'm wrong but I believe you said she has a boyfriend and she had to go home to fix some drama. Well I think what happened was the first time you hung out she was either mad or annoyed at the boyfriend, possibly thinking about dropping him. Then she went home, fixed the problem, and kind of knew you were into her so she shut that down meaning she didn't want to give you any signs that she was into you. Now it appears she has gotten really weird, you were really nice to her and even though she might not have feelings for you well you took her all over town to help her with work and now she is de-friending you on Facebook as well as blocking you. You should move on, get the money back if you have to and then just forget about her.

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