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Why did he block and delete me? Should I say something?
11-09-2012, 12:41 PM
Post: #1
Why did he block and delete me? Should I say something?
This guy I dated for 3 months who I was madly into told me that he didn't know what he wanted, didn't know where he'd be and said the "it's not you, it's me" thing and we basically broke it off. Shortly after I saw him hanging out with a new girl. I was pretty upset, he seemed like he would be emotionally unavailable to any girl bc i suspected unresolved issues with the ex.

Right when we broke it off, i removed him from twitter so i wouldn't have to see his life updates which would upset me but i left facebook alone. He then made his twitter public again (my friend said it was bc he wants me to see it)
after 2 weeks of him breaking it off with me he was asking for a book he lent me back. I didn't know why he would ask for it back since it's inexpensive and we clearly wouldn't be seeing each other anymore. I didn't respond. Then 2 days later he said "Thought we would still be friends" (he was also on vacation when he sent the text 2 days later)...I took a day to respond bc i didn't know what to say, i was hurt still. Basically, I just said "I didn't like the way you treated me when we dated so i don't think friendship would be beneficial either" - he hurt me, he really was not good to me. i don't get how he expected me to still be sweet after how he ignored/stood me up etc...He just said "its all good"

then a few days later he blocked and deleted me. (while on vacation...)

Anyway, shortly after we broke it off. a young, good looking successful man started pursuing me. He fell for me pretty quickly and wanted all the same things i did (but we're taking it slow) so he was posting more on my fb and we had pictures together which he probably saw before he texted me.

It seems like I moved on fast from my fb but i was hurting inside, trying to just forget and move on. Heck, I'm still hurting obviously posting this question, despite the amazing man that wants me now. Why did he take the initiative to block and remove me on fb? should i just leave it alone? I could have saw me being just friends with him down the road after I healed but it was too soon...

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11-09-2012, 12:50 PM
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WHY do you care? He's your ex and you've already got somebody else in your life.

GET OVER IT!

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11-09-2012, 12:50 PM
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He just wants to start drama. Leave him alone and FORGET HIM. You've got a great guy on your hands that wants you! Forget about the dummy and move on with your life. Smile
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