Why Is She Suddenly Doing This?

[tyber]

So, I've been talking to this girl on Facebook since the middle of June... we got over 2400 messages/texts etc by the end of the summer. Since we seemed to have a TON of stuff in common I decided to ask her out since I didn't know if once school started again (Shes 16 and I'm 17) shed be getting hit on / going out with other guys.

She told me no because "she doesn't really like dating in general" and that her decision was "after a lot of consideration because you're pretty much awesome" and she "still wants to be friends".... so a couple days later her best friend talked to her about it (Not my idea) and found out that shes only had 1 boyfriend and only told me she didnt want to since she didn't know if she "liked" me or not because we haven't actually met before.

I've been trying to organize to do something with this girl for like 4-5 weeks now, and every weekend shes busy ("busy" ? ) doing something... shes still talked to me a lot since I asked her out, but the last few days she doesn't seem to respond to anything anymore. Like most people I check my Facebook messages whenever I'm on there and it tells me that shes "Seen at [Time]" my messages the past few days, but she doesn't respond or say anything back anymore...

I guess I'm kind of "stuck" now and I really dont know what to do / what im supposed to do now..? Wait it out? Try again in a few days? Ignore her?


THINGS TO CONSIDER:

*I'm fine being "just friends" but it still seems odd... shes talked to me for over a month since I asked her out

*We've never met before, which is why I've been trying to organize something.

*The last time I "really" heard from her was Wednesday of last week, but she sent me like a 2 word message on Sunday...

*The last time ive sent her something was Monday

*Literally nothing "different" has happened at all, they just all of a sudden stopped talking

*Ive been trying to organize stuff "as friends" in the least creepy way possible.. even suggested to make it a group thing.

*Yes, she knows I'm really me and I know shes really her.. we've briefly seen each other once by accident.

*I dont think shes ignoring me beacuse I asked her out, that was over a month ago & shes been talking to me just fine since then... until now.

I just find it really odd shes read my "recent" messages but hasn't responded to me for a few days/a week? What would randomly make her stop responding to stuff?



*DO NOT SAY "FRIENDZONE", if that was the case she would still be talking to me...

[Deacon]

Dude. She doesn't want you. Give it up.