How do I stop being self-conscious about myself?

[Stephen]

Easy and you answered your own question. Don.t focus your life so much on yourself, how can you know what ever ones thinking?

In other words your reality is your thoughts so think more positive and don't be so Narcissistic.

[Manymoons]

It's ultimately what YOU think of yourself that counts! Focus in the good things about yourself. Do you treat others with kindness, are you a good friend, listener, genuine, etc.... What we focus on becomes a habit. It takes 30 days to change a habit by replacing it with another healthier habit. Every time you begin to think what others think of you, CATCH yourself, & remind yourself of the good inner qualities you possess that truly are most important. Remember what you think of yourself, will be reflected back to you by others. They will mirror back to you what you think of yourself. Focus on & Think good things about yourself. What we focus on, we get more if, experience more of, it becomes our reality. No need to limit or define yourself on outward appearances. If we do our inner work, the beauty is reflected on the outside. You are far more, far greater than you realize.

[Holly]

I know how you feel. I am self conscious on what I wear. Other peoples opinions shouldn't matter. If you believe that you are pretty than so be it! Don't let the negativity get to you, I know its really hard not to let it get to you but You just have to try. I always get yelled at by my friends because I call myself ugly and fat, but it shouldn't matter because the people who care about me accept me. If you are able to accept yourself and your friends can than Fuck anyone else. The can have their opinion but it doesn't mean it's true.