20s+ would he think anything of it? (will answer back)?

[Rose]

So there;s this guy at uni who I like. I was randomly allocated into his group for an assignment- and pretty much any conversation that we had was around that (although I did try bring in a bit of flirt- but it wasn;t much). We recently were off from uni for four weeks for prac (we're studying teaching). During the middle of it I messaged him and added him on facebook- asking how prac was going. He doesnt really use fb that much and so the conversation kind of stopped after a few messages. Since we've been back (2 weeks) we haven't really had a chance where we can talk- we've maybe caught eeach others eyes once or twice in class when something was said by a peer...

but I'm just wondering- was it weird of me to have added and messaged him? is it weird that we've not really talked? whatcould he be thinking?

[Stephen]

ya might be over thinking things just a lil..

[Anthony]

anything worth having in life is worth fighting for. Step up your game and go after this guy.... stop being a wall flower and letting life pass you by... the only reason he doesn't have you as a girl friend is because you behaved like a social butterfly. Step up to the plate and show him the advantages of being close to you... lunches together, dinners, dates to the football game together, kissing or sex on a regular basis. Being shy is okay... nothing wrong with it. but at some point in life you have to be aggressive... getting the one job at a store, buying the 1 house you really like, marrying the guy you want to be the father of your children, etc. some events in life offer only 1 chance and if you lose there is no 2nd chance for happiness. so if you really want him step up and suggest you be his girlfriend. if he says no have respect for his decision and find another guy that wants to be with you as a boyfriend. there are no rules that say boys have to be the only ones that risk rejection. asking a guy out will make hime respect you for your effort... guys always risk rejection and it hurts and sucks... you risking rejection will make him feel special and make him think of you differently than other girls...

[Sharad]

noo dear not weird at all.u knew him already so sending request n msg .is not big problem.mayb he kinda wan to concentrate on his assignment stuff.so need not to think that much..ya there r some guys who r bit serious abt ther carrer n all.now don try to over do anything .u should strat up wid good light kinda conversation.so as he might kno abt u much better.then mayb u can say or share ur feeling wid him..if he likes u he wont deny at all..gud luck..bii tc