He cheated on her with me. What do I do?

[sandra]

I met an officer (off duty) a few months ago. We have been going on dates and what not, we have also kissed a few times, and he seemed like a total gentleman. Up until a few nights ago he came over, things got a little heated and I ended up telling him I am a virgin and he seemed okay with it, and we both agreed to take our time moving forward and he wasn't bothered by it one bit. We also had a discussion about being exclusive -- he said he wasn't ready yet, but eventually yes. I told him about my past and I was very honest, how I've only had 2 boyfriends etc, and he told me he hadn't had a girlfriend for a few months. Well, I went to look him up on Facebook to add him, and a girl's picture popped up on his friends list of them two. As I looked through her profile, it looks like he is in fact "in a relationship" with her. It's very hurtful to me to know he was so careless with my feelings, and I will leave him in the past, but what do I do now? do I confront him when he calls? do I say something to her? do I let him come over and discuss this with him in person? help!

[Peter]

I would simply answer the phone and tell him you can't see him anymore. If he asks why, tell him you know he's in a relationship with someone else. Then proceed to hang up the phone, and move on to the next one.

[C. Jones]

What a jerk. Get out of there now.

[john]

He probs just forgot to take it off

[Nikki]

I believe that you should move on because even if he does leave her for you the fact is that if he's willing to cheat on her with you then he'd be willing to cheat on you with someone in the future. Also, I agree that you should just tell him you can't see him anymore but do not tell him why because I think you should find a way to let his girlfriend know about his cheating and if you let him know that you know he's cheating he might just tell her that you're a crazy liar or something. So if you do let her know maybe show her some of y'alls messages so that she'll believe you since believing that your boyfriend is a cheater can be a little hard sometimes. Mainly when it comes to the man just let him go.

Hope this helps