My boyfriend cheated on me with a girl?

[Colton]

Me and my boyfriend James have been dating for the past 3 weeks. We met at a LGBT youth group. I needed some guidance so i attendant a meeting, and there he was, James. We bonded over the fact that we go to the same school and blah blah blah, that same day i went over to his house, and no one was home and before i knew it we were making out. Anyways day’s later we made our relationship official, but one big giant secret cause we’re still in the closet.

James and me are totally different, he’s on the football team, hangs out with all the jocks, goes to all the fun parties. Whilst i am a complete drama geek who sings show tunes in his car and hangs out with my drama club -- and never misses an episode of Glee.

The thing is, James totally ignores me at school. A lot of people assume i’m gay, because I’m kinda flamboyant -- and being in musical theatre doesn’t help my image..so James being seen with me could ruin his rep. It kind of hurts my feelings..but i understand.

Anyways, yesterday i was hanging out with my two best girl friends and one of them started talking about how she walked in on James and this girl Ashley having sex at a party yesterday. My friends didn’t know me and James we’re going out. When i heard that i wanted to just burst in to tears. I know James isn’t bi. Trust me, i know. He totally did it, so people wouldn’t question his sexuality. He clearly doesn’t care about my feelings. I haven’t talked to him about the situation. I don’t know what to do, or how to go about it.

And the sad thing is, there’s pictures of them making out all over Facebook. It kills me.

It would be nice if someone could email me, so i could vent? There’s more to the story that i didn’t add. I just need some help, advice -- anything to make me fall out of this depression. Email me at coltonxh@yahoo.com

preferably someone who cold relate, or is around my age who is gay.I'm 17.

[JL]

This is not my name e mail me at staop2235@yahoo.com and I can talk to you more about it and I will listen as best as I can. I'm bisexual and I've been in your shoes about it before myself. If I don't answer immediately I will respond since I have been in your position before.

[Haywood Jablome]

even though you said he's not----I think your bf is bi---and technically it's not cheating if he is chasing vagina since you dont have one---as long as he comes to you for d ick everything is ok