Why do girls hate me? (I am a girl)?

[Emma]

Basically other girls seem to hate me and I don't understand why. I am nice and I'm not ugly at all and others would say I'm pretty but I have very little confidence within myself. The other day one of my friends hacked into my Facebook account and deleted loads of my profile photos that had loads of comments and likes which upset me because they were personal photos to me (a few of my friends know my password because I thought I could trust them but I have obviously changed it now). And the other week a couple of girls rung my mum from a withheld number and were telling my mum how much they hate me which obviously upset my mum loads, and I thought to myself no matter how much they may hate me, they shouldn't upset my mum like that what do I do? I get on with boys fine and they seem to like me a lot more than girls do!! It gets to me sooo much, and I don't think the girls realise how they make me feel, any advice??

Thankyou in advance

[Woo]

Girls can be such b!tches. Ignore them.

[Sue Whee]

Find the ringleader and kill her. The others will fall into line.

If you're an easy enough mark to trust people with passwords there may be some other things you're doing which make you appear gullible and needy.

[Kaylee120]

better solution is to ignore them

[Sava]

Greetings, I am a guy. And I would certainly advise you two things:
1. Do not refer to yourself as "not ugly". If you are to brag about it, call yourself hot.
2. Girls are complicated creatures, they feed upon the weak minded, and make fun of them. The reason why they hate you (or severely dislike you) is because, simply, my dear, you are much nicer or prettier than them and they have a hard time accepting that. So, it is not something you did, by being so awesome, it is simply because they are bitches, just like the first comment says. So my advice is, don't give a shit and everything will be okay <3
3. Meander down the hallway singing "They see me rollin, they hatin"; I think that might help you out.

[Acrid]

Just know that some people can be unbelievably cruel to others. Maybe those other girls are jealous of you for some reason and pick on you or maybe they pick on you because they know that you won't to anything back. I'm not a girl but if I were in that situation I'd start finding a way to fight back rather then letting them get away with what they're doing. Although this might just be my natural male instinct telling me to fight off any annoying people. If these girls go to your school I'd probably suggest having your parents go down there and complain to the principal or whoevers in charge of what's going on. Tell them that these girls are interrupting your learning at school too. That usually catches their attention.

[?]

Hmm some people just tend to hurt others because :

1)they feel threatened (You're becoming better then them at something or maybe getting the boys they like/crush on)
3)they're jealous of something you got and they don't and maybe could never get...
4)you have done something to them in the past which made the react like that..
5)Maybe they just hate you! (People could just hate for absolutely no reason which is quiet sad!)


Just ignore them unless they do something really harmful then you need to report them (police , Teacher , Principle, Anyone)

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[Poppy]

Mmm...First of all, you should know by now tat girls can be vindictive, evil, spiteful and down right ugly. It wouldnt matter if they dont like each other at all, they will join forces with an enemy to fight the common good (you). Secondly, " your friend" isnt your friend. Distance yourself. Pick up a real book take a break from facebook and learn something . Learn to love yourself. Lastly, they dont hate you. Thei jelous of you. They see you as their ultimat competition an they cant compete. They see what youre too blind to see. They see whats on the inside. They see the guys smie and speak to you with respec and not like the type theyve become

[Linda]

These girls are not your friends - they are bullies. Do not allow them to bully you - keep changing your password and NEVER give your password to anyone. De-Friend them and change your cell number so they can't harass you. REPORT THEM to the police if they harass your Mom, again. You are one of a kind - embrace that and enjoy your guy friends. Do not give a second thought to anyone that is mean because they are eat up with jealousy. Leave that crowd alone and find a new girlfriend, and be a good girlfriend to that one ... together you two will make more NEW friends. Be who you are, stay kind but firm in not allowing them to be mean - their ugliness can't hurt unless you allow it to.

[Katie]

Sounds to me like they are jealous of you.
They are jealous because you are nice, and not ugly and get on well with boys (which is nothing to feel bad about)
Try to stay away from them, keep a distance and tell someone, because its a form of Bullying what they are doing. Nobody deserves to be treated like that.
You don;t need people like that in your life, Surround yourself with good people, and don't waste time on these girls.
Your a far better person than they could ever be.
Tell your mum and tell another adult that could help.

Good luck, don't feel down about it.