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What should i do, I don't love him?
11-09-2012, 12:57 PM
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What should i do, I don't love him?
A guy in three of my classes at school has a massive crush on me (sorry i hope i don't sound stuck up). He does not leave me alone, especially on facebook. At school it can be kind of awkward, and i don't think he understands i am happy for both of us to be just friends.

He is actually really starting to annoy me, and i want to be nice to him, but i am scared to joke or talk with him because i keep thinking he is interpreting it as flirting. I want you to know that I have never ever intentionally flirted with this guy.

This is a bit of a bad situation, and to tell you the truth i just want him to go away without me crushing his feelings (not that i have that power, but i don't want to upset him).

So if you have any advice. I have considered just telling him i don't like him in that way, but uetgebjkeshgruewhr.

Thanks
I don't know if i even like him enough to call him a brother, he is annoying me so much at the moment.

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11-09-2012, 01:05 PM
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The truth hurts, but sometimes it is necessary to hurt someone in the shortrun than in the longrun. If you don't tell him firmly that you just want to be friends and you want to be he will think he has a chance with you. In other words he will have false hope and it will hurt even greater when he finds out that it was a delusion. So just tell him straight forward and to the point, you're actually doing him a favor.

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11-09-2012, 01:05 PM
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The easiest way out is to just be like "You're like the brother i never had" or "You are the best brother!"

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