Being bullied please help can't take it :/?

[Alex Mcinerney]

Hey guys,My names alex,Im constantly being called names on facebook by these 3 guys I know :/. Anyway they were all my friends at one stage,but I don't know what happend but now they dislike me and make fun of me and I wonder if it's something I did wrong? The worst part is one of them is friends with my gang of friends and I have to deal with listening to him everyday and talking **** to my friends about me behind my back.One is telling me I'm an ugly **** and won't get any girl that's me http://www.flickr.com/photos/64936579@N04/6783510206/ , It makes me think I am too..:/.Another tell me I'm a loser and none of my friends like me and they want to get rid of me.Another telling me I have too much friends on facebook even though People add me all the time,I just accept everyone :/,they also say I'm a facebook addict and spent 24/7 on it,I really only spend 3-4 hours a day.They also do it in school,one of the guys lockers is right beside mine and i have to listen to him abusing and slagging me ,That's not even half of it,I feel depressed and annoyed and fed up,and don't even enjoy going to school anymore...what do I do ? :/...Just feel like dying

[Lucy]

You can't deal with this alone tell someone these boys are jerks go to a teacher and they will give you advice . You are definitely not ugly

[Bruce]

Stand up for yourself, be a man and let them know that you don't take any shit

[Gemini]

Please please do not feel like dying, I suffered this and YOU ARE BETTER THAN THIS I PROMISE. People try to get you down in life, what c**ts. Your 10000x better than they will ever be. You are not ugly, they are probably ugly themselves! Try and move school I done this and it helped, trust me it does get better and for the depression go to the doc they gave me antidepressants and i feel really good. And if you ever did try and take your life go to the hospital where they can watch you, but please just overcome it. Dont let the b**t*rds get you down, tell someone even the headteacher then they will get in BIG trouble

[Sophia Renteria]

First of all, your NOT ugly. you are pretty cute actually! Ignore the people that are bullying you. Tell your teacher or tell the person you trust the most. They can help you, trust me. report the people on Facebook that are bothering you. Hope this helps!

[Superstar]

Could you perhaps try changing school?
They could all be jealous - you look like a very good looking boy in your Y! avatar.

I really do hope everything works out for you - good luck .

P.s - don't die, it would be a terribly tragic waste of your life and your looks! One day this will be long forgotten and you'll be leading a happy and successful life, and these boys (if they fail to change their ways) will still be sitting behind computers and mobile phones harassing those they envy.

[Sydney Amber]

I'm so sorry, I can't help out much because I don't know what it's like being that severe. How do you react to them? You shouldn't try to fight back; either ignore them (although that doesn't always work) or ask why they're being so immature. Ask what you did. Maybe they'll tell you. If not, just keep reminding them that they aren't bothering you anymore and that their comments are getting old, even if you're still getting hurt. A simple "I don't care" can reduce their confidence in trying to hurt your feelings. And you aren't ugly! Maybe he just envies your looks.
I really hope everything gets better, I wouldn't want you to cause any harm to yourself. Wish you the best of luck.

[Enigma]

Before I answer, you should know I'm pretty qualified to advise you on this enquiry. I was bullied myself when I was your age for the better part of two years, and what I'm about to tell you has helped kids that I know kick bullying in the ass. So if you really, and I mean really want to rise above the hate, you'll do well to listen to what I have to say. Hence:

I'm going to be blunt and hit you with some truth, because that's the best way I can help. What are you, 12, 13? None of this is going to matter two years from now when you're 14/15. Provided you're a nice enough guy and easy to get on with, in two years, all the immaturity will go away, and most of those guys will be your friends. In four years tops, no-one will even remember you were bullied in the first place. You'll be normal. I'm living proof.

Basically, my advice is what the adults all say to you, and it's what I failed to do when it was my turn , and that's why I'm real keen for you to pick it up now: ignore the teasing, put it out of your mind, and just leave them to it. In two years from now, they'll all realise how immature they were, and if you get that point of view into your head right now, you've got a great head start on becoming a man. just recognise that stuff going on now isn't going to mean a damn in your near-future, and you will be as cool as those guys for the rest of your educational life. You will be coolER than those guys. Pretty promise. But you need to get the correct state of mind ASAP.

Practically, what I mean is this: when kids say not-nice things to you, instead of getting emotional and worked-up, shrug it off and act really friendly to them. They'll see you don't react, recognise your maturity, and start to accept you. If, god forbid, someone tries to start a fight with you, just act calm and gently make him, and any people that are around, that he's acting unreasonably and that you have the moral high ground. That's not that clear, but hopefully you get the gist of what I'm saying.

And yeah... it's not easy. You'd never think of this stuff by yourself, no kid your age would. But I can, and I hope imparting the knowledge onto you will enable you to use it.

The very best of luck. You're welcome.

[Lesley]

i know how you feel i got bullied for years aswell of people that were supposed to be my friends and i felt so bad about myself it knocked my confidence really badly , but think about this those boys are bullying you because theyre jelouse , they havnt any confidence and theyre trying to put you down to make themselfs feel better ,, do you think they go home at night and sit and worry about you ? because they are so worried about themselfs they dont give you a second thought sooooo build up your own confidence cause your right good lookin and aim high in life there will always be some daffty tryn to knock you down be a strong person inside and it will show on the outside , your IT Alex and dont ever believe anyone who trys to tell you any different ,, xx

[Rocky]

Beat the shit out of them. Earn respect.