Why are there no "real" friends in our lifetime.?

[The Man]

When I was in college I was part of this wonderful group of people. We were all real close and were close friends. We studied, worked out, ate, and even a few of us slept together. We were a family. When the year was over everyone was in tears and devastated even though we knew we'd see each other in a few months (and some during the Summer). After our second year a few of our friends had to commute and weren't around. Ever since then more and more of the group grew farther away. Somehow the responsibility fell onto me to keep us all together and I felt I did everything I could. I was always there and sacrificed much to keep these people in my life. After I that I've done they've turned their backs on me. It's the same thing, whenever they needed someone I was called, but if I need someone they're always busy...all of them. When I try to get everyone together they're all busy. What really hurts is some have still kept in contact, but when I try to talk to any of them I get no response via facebook or text. What happened here? I know many others who have the same thing that has happened. Any thoughts?

[Rochelle]

There are real friends. It only happens that you may have to still keep a look out for them or you may have known them all this time but it happens that you have never considered that/ those person(s) as someone who is worth to be called a friend for a lifetime.

[justalittleinsane]

becoz life is changes and with the change you have to find new frens too..

[♥Sali90♥]

Your friendship wasn't valued by them, they became complacent and were too lazy to make any effort with you. Just because they rejected you doesn't mean that other friends you make will follow suit.

There are real friends out there, you will find them as you sound like a very nice person. So don't let these so-called friends change your views on friendships, good luck.

[Greenlight]

maybe there are real friends in life maybe there aren't most people who say they have friends think that since a person doesn't hate them then that person is there friend
i prefer to believe that there are real friends in life and i am trying desperately to find them before years i had a best friend we even wanted to be brothers but now he denies that we were ever friends and he hate's me i have moved on
i am trying to find a true friend who would listen to me when i am talking about my feelings and at least try to understand me without making fun of me someone with whom I can have fun and enjoy that someone's company