I feel like I don't have any friends or anyone I can trust?

[Ariadne]

Everyone at school has "best" friend(s). I do hang out with some people but I can't trust them and it seems like they always exclude me out. Like today, on facebook they made a status and tagged everyone in the group I hang with except me. I feel so left out, this is not my first time, my first time it was at school, we had group work and my group I hang with are in the same commerce class as me, we all grouped up and one person wrote everyone's name down. and then when miss called out the group names, my name was not part of it and the person who wrote said to me "Oh woops, I forgot to write your name, soz" .... It made me feel so cut because I have known them since year 7 and hang with them since year 9... and now I am in grade 10.

I am on holidays right now and when I go back to school I just feel like leaving everyone and focus on my study alone in the library at lunch and recess.

When is the best time to find a true friend?

Even seeing wedding shows, especially bridesmaid helping the bride... I always think that when it comes to my wedding... I probably will not have any close friend to be my bridesmaid. Although.. I shouldnt be worrying about marriage yet since I am only 16 but then just a short thought about it kind of hurts me inside...

[Wedge]

It will get better. High school sucks. You will find a good friend. In the interim dont waste too much time on the friends that treat you poorly. Join a new club, or a group outside of school...there are lots of people in the world and you will find someone(s) when you least expect it. Always remember, it will get better.
@wedge24

[ashley]

Your "friends" aren't friends if they keep excluding you or forgetting you. You should just leave them and try to find some new friends that will actually include you in group activities.


Also if you'd ever like to talk to a friend I'm here and I will never exclude you. Just email me if you would like to talk.

[A]

Ahh i fel the exact same way!
Im 16 in high school and even though i hang out with some people they often left me out and i feel i cant trust any of them. I feel so sad and worthless because of it. And i also thought about this wedding thing where ill have no close friends
I would suggest you to just hang on there, hopefully it will get better in time.
If u want i can be ur friend

[kenbgray]

Welcome to the club.