Does she have a sick obsession with him?

[mylifeasanovelist]

Hey Y&A
I promise to make this quick.
I have been talking to this guy for about 10 months now, online. I met him in person, he’s a family friend and when his mother passed away he needed someone to talk to, and we started talking. At first it wasn’t anything romantic but then we both started to catch feelings for one another. Long story short he’s not my boyfriend, however, he booked a plane ticket and his father is bringing him to stay here with me in my city (we live 2,400 miles away from one another) and both my family and his already consider us boyfriend/girlfriend. Alright, so when we started talking he told me that he didn’t feel like he had any true friends, because they only like you when you have money, booze, and are happy and want to party.

Latley he’s been going out with a group of friends (the last two weeks, to say goodbye) he’s going to be in my city in less than a week, same 5 people, including one girl that I wasn’t very fond of because I had a feeling she had something for him, but was just sitting on the side lines. She was always all over him in pictures, he wouldn’t even put his arm around her and she would be arching her backside onto him and stuff.

ANYWAY, a few nights ago we were speaking (on the phone) and he told me he had something to say but didn’t want it to change anything, he told me I LOVE YOU and I felt it too, so I said it back. (no judgment, I grew up with this kid before my parents moved states, and I had a big crush on him before) ttoday he wrote on his facebook status “10 days, and I’m there :’)”
The girl wrote “ Ya, your going to effing hell.”

He ignored her, but my thing is...am I right? Does she indeed have some sick idea that she could have him? I mean she’s already had a kid, who’s 5 years old, and she’s only 21.....
We are both in our twenties, thanks

[$0V13T RU$$1@]

You seem to have the obsession here. How do you know that this guy you like isn't just being nice to you as he has no choice but to move to your city and he's abandoning his girlfriend?

[Lucia]

I mean.... her behavior is inappropriate yes, and I can see why it would upset and annoy you. But I feel bad for her honestly. She obviously likes him (and is maybe a little crazy). And so she is having some trouble letting go and accepting the idea that he likes someone else. Not sure what your plan is with dealing with her, but just continue with your relationship with this guy and try to be calm and polite when the situation comes up.

Can you help with mine? Thanks! http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...014AABY7u3

[?]

Yes she does like him but she shouldt be acting like that