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Help love is hard ( High School)?
11-09-2012, 01:20 PM
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Help love is hard ( High School)?
Hey my name is Andrew and i'm a Junior in H.S. I like three girls now and i can't seem to pick between one of them they are all awesome. One of them is Really awesome and plays video games and is really cool. Problem is one of my friends ( for like 2 weeks) liked her and she said no, kind of awkward for me to talk to her besides Facebook she's a Sophomore friends with a couple of my friends and every time i talk to her she laughs at my jokes online but when i ask her to hang i get no response, she her in the hallway i don't know what to say. The other girl is also a Sophomore. I hung out with her over the summer with some buds Kiyaking. She's really cool and into music like me. I've never talked to her after Kiyaking and i felt like i should've asked for her # because we really hit it up. Don't even know how to talk or approach her now. The other is a freshman on cheer leading but not super popular. She's in my Food class and laughs at all my jokes, she seems to always look at me after school and i seem to always see her around school. She looks at me i look at her. Even today when i went to the weight roo after school i hung out with my friends in a group first saw her look and me then when i looked at her she looked away and went walking. After awhile i tried chasing( walking after her to talk " I was on my way to the weight room"). But she was gone. She's cool. Little info about myself. I'm a guy 5"10 and a half medium size about of friends. Plays drums and guitar in my band outside school as weel as drums in it. I play sports as extra curricular activities. Most people see me as the "nice , sweet guy". I go to 4 clubs and weight room after school. As well as I'm a boy scout plz don't make fun of me. I would just like some guidance and help. I'm pretty shy around girls i like and new girls in general, i'm friends with about 20 girls but that's from hanging with them alot because their friends with one of my friends / lunch table/ Coninsedience. Thanks for the help. I really appreciate it. Plus should i wait till junior prom time to ask? i know it's a jerk move and i hate to do it but some people said it would improve my chances

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11-09-2012, 01:28 PM
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Your shyness leaps off the page. I suspect your friends have no idea how shy you are on the inside considering how everyone laughs at your jokes (laughing on the outside, crying on the inside?). The cheerleader seems like a good match. Don't wait for prom. Talk to her, about anything, including kayaking or classes or teachers or music or cheerleading. Ask her out for a hamburger. Then a movie. Then the prom. But open your mouth -- and not just to hide behind another joke. It's time to be serious. Faint heart ne'er won fair maiden, he who hesitates is lost, the clock is ticking, nothing ventured nothing gained, better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Pick one. You sound like a keeper, Andrew. Good luck.

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