What should I say to him, if anything?

[Sanna]

I'll try not to write too much Anyway I've gone to this thing that's like a youth group but we pretty much just play video games twice now. There is this guy there I'll call "D." He is 19 and I am 16. He started talking to me on facebook last Friday (after youth group) and he's really nice. The problem is, he asked me out a few days ago. I would have gone out with him, but my mom told me he is too old for me and said he and I should just be friends. I really value my mom's trust and since I don't really have feelings for D (I said yes because he is so nice and I wanted to give him a chance) I told him what she said. He also knows that I don't really like him like that. Anyway, he's very sweet and calls me pretty lady all the time. I'm just starting to feel uncomfortable because he's getting ahead of himself. I can read him like an open book, and I haven't even seen him since the last youth group meeting. He almost told me he loves me over text today. He said "I... nvm." And I asked him what and he was like "I probably shouldn't say it to you now... I'll say it later unless you say it first " I feel like he is so infatuated with me but he doesn't really know me, so we'll end up awkward and barely talking to each other. I want to know if I should tell him to slow down and think about things for a bit, or if I should just not pay attention to it. I enjoy texting him and he has a great personality - we're equally silly and both love music and singing. I feel like we could be close friends, but his obsession with me could prevent that. What should I do? I really only want to be friends at this point. We have youth group tomorrow as well. If you think I should say something, should I say it before or after?

[Jo]

i would say you definitely should say something after youth Group if you decide you really don't like him like that ... seeing him during youth group will help you make your final decision.
but you cant let him to continue on making you feel weird... and Rushing you into something you dont want from him and/or are not ready for . Tell him to slow it down or stop it completly.