10 points. How do I invite the guy I like to my halloween party?

[Louise]

I am 16 and I like this guy and we are chatting on facebook a bit and I was wondering if I should invite him to my halloween party, its small only 2-4 others going, my guy friend is coming too so he wont be the only guy.
How do I ask him without being desperate, I know hes free but we only started talking recently and only once in person. Should I ask him or not? My friends say I should. Please help!

[Isabella]

I think you should. It could be a great way to ease your nervousness about liking him by having your friends there as well. Plus this would be an amazing opportunity to get to know him and him get to know you and your friends. You could find that you don't like him as much as you though or much more. I think its perfect.

Just message him and say "Hey i am having a Halloween party and i thought it would be a great way to get to hang out with you if you like." Or something like that.

[Packie]

Lass, ask him. Just seem calm about it. Just say that you and some friends opf yours are having a little Halloween party and you'd love to have him come to it. Lass, saying it like that isn't bad, and the love part doesn't mean " I LOVE YOU " it means " I really do want you to come BUT................. " basically giving some effort...a little push to come to the party mate but leaving it out there thats its obviously ok if he declines and says no. Maybe say " a few friends of mine and i are having a halloween party..did you wanna come to it? ' I dont know how you talk naturally lass, so its hard for me to put words in your mouth...also im 24 and irish/ british/ scottish./ jamaicain/ phillipino....xD I talk way differently than you lass and would say it differently. If it was me to a lass i liked id ask her out nicely and calmly. Thats the best bet. JUST BE C-A-L-M lass!!!!! If he says yes, you owe me a drink. xD hah. If not, well, s*ite, at least I tried to help and at least you tried and asked. Be confident. Free hint: Men LOVE confident women--NOT cocky NOR arrogant woman, but confident. Its attractive to us. Free hint. ;D Best of luck to you lass! Cheers!