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girls only please. does she like me? how do i ask her out? best answer gets 10 points?
11-09-2012, 01:28 PM
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girls only please. does she like me? how do i ask her out? best answer gets 10 points?
I know it's a little long but please read the full thing.

ok so i'm 15 years old and there's this girl i really like. I've known her since the start of the year but have been getting to know her better in the past couple of months. I shall refer to her as A from now on. A and I share a few of the same interests e.g. we both play guitar, like some of the same music etc. A and i are in the same music group (each group in the music class has to perform for two other classes) along with one of her friends and one of my mates. We are all ok friends but i don't really talk to A much outside of class. (I'll call her friend B)

Whenever we are in music class A will nearly always be staring at me basically until i look back at her. She laughs at nearly everything i say and is nearly always smiling at me whenever i am speaking. (She's a naturally cheery person but from what i've seen she is completely different around other people) Also lately her friend (B) has been asking a lot of questions about who i would rather go out with and what my type of girl is. (however I do know of a couple of B's other friends that might like me, I don't really have an interest in them) Does she like me? How do i find out if she does?

If she does like me I want to ask her out but i don't really see her much except for music class (I sometimes see her going from class to class, we sometimes make eye contact but yeah) I don't have her phone number and she is never really on facebook. (I wouldn't ask her out on facebook anyway, that's just lame) and whenever I do see her she is always with some of her friends or I'm with mine.

I also have a bit of a problem. There is this girl who I know likes me (I'll call her C) I've known her for round about the same time. I met her in media class. I don't know how long she has liked me for but because she is always following me around (She's REALLY clingy)

People think we are an item. I've made it quite clear to A and B that i never have or never will go out with her. But I suppose it doesn't exactly help with C spreading rumours that she's going out with me. It's really starting to annoy me how she never leaves me alone, whenever she sees me she comes over and starts calling out to me (even when i'm really busy with something) and she is always following me making these screeching/laughing noises (kind of like mocking me? i don't know but it's pissing me off) I can't shake her. She's constantly texting me and has been doing this for over a month, how do i get rid of her and get her to back off without offending her or hurting her feelings? (See she seem's to think that she is everyone's friend when really everyone thinks she is annoying)

please help me out here.

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11-09-2012, 01:36 PM
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11-09-2012, 01:36 PM
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Read half of it and it's obvious girl A likes you. Get her number start texting and flirting. Then ask her to movies. After, if it went well, ask her out.
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11-09-2012, 01:36 PM
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It seems that girl A really does like you. Go with your gut feeling that's usually right! Ask for her number as a start, because even if she just likes you as a friend she wouldn't reject your number! Text her first because she probably won't want to seem clingy. If she seems flirty, and replies quickly, she does care.
You should ask her out in person try and get her alone if you can, without the pressures of friends!
If she's says yes! Yay!
But if she says no it doesn't seem like your stupidly good friends, so you may be able to carry on as normal, without it being too awkward - it's not the end of the world, and at least you tried!

About this stalker girl, if you do date girl A, she'll probably get the message and stop bugging you, but still talk to her, as she'll be hurting, but strictly in a friend way, you don't want her to get the wrong idea! If not, just try sit her down and tell her nicely and firmly your not interested in a relationship, and you would appreciate if she didn't spread rumors, but you'dlove to stay friends, she should understand!

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