me and my fiance broke up and i don't know wether to fix it or leave it alone...?

[sushininjapanda]

i went to chinatown for the first with my mom, one of my friends and my finace. my finace is very sensitive, has anger issues, obssessed with me and is very conceded at times.. he is also very immature and dramatic like a kid. before we went to shop around chinatown my friend was on her period but my finace was being loud about it and i told him to not be so loud. he asked me whats wrong and i said nothing, its just that most women dont like to expose their period out loud.. he got super offended about that and he was very mad, he thought i was being mean and i was just trying to respect my friend.. afterwards he told me he was sorry and that he could diappear and that i dont have to see him again. and i was confused, he was mad so he left around the corner of the building, i told him not to go that far but he didnt listen he got lost in chinatown like an idiot knowing that he doesnt know where anything is. his phone was even dead, so afterwards of course we couldnt find him so we had to leave him to catch the last bus. when we were in the car almost going home he finally text me say that he took the bus to get home. when i made it home his car was still outside and he came over and apoligized but i told him i didnt want to talk to him for a while because i spent the whole time looking for him while i coul've been having fun.. me and him could've talked things out but he was being a big baby and wanted to leave the group. he started yelling at me saying that i didnt care about how he felt when he should'nt have even been affended by what i said in the first place.my mom came and told him to leave and come back tomarrow to cool off but he refused.. afterwards he started yelling at my mom telling her that he always knew she wanted me and him to breakup, and thats not even the case. he was just being extremely loud.. i thought the cops was going to come. afterwards he hug me extemely tight saying that he's not going to lose me and how i dont appreciated anything he does for me when i do..he assumed that we we're breaking up, i tried to tell him but he didnt listen to me.. he never listens to me or anything i have to say. he's self centered and made himself look like a victum to his family. he;s very insecure and never trusts me.. afterwards he assumed that i was breaking up with him when i said i wasnt going to, i was just mad and didnt want to talk to him. he went in my room to get his stuff and then he just layed on my floor and had a temper tantrum and a nervous breakdown, eventually when he left we told his mom and she took the whole situation very nonchalantly like its not really a big deal. i was really mad about that, when he came home he stared text me rude messages saying about all the things he did to make me happy and how i dont care about how he feels.. i was so annoyed then he started talking to my best friend about what happened and my best friend told him to not talk to him about me. and he uses his facebook after a year of not using it and he changes his realationship status to engaged to single to make me mad so i blocked him i eventually had to change my number because he kept texting me and i felt like i was being harrassed he did it for weeks and eventually i changed it. the same things he kept saying over and over again. i woke up in the morning and i had about 25 messages when i woke up and he sent them to me at like 4 in the morning... i still care about him but i cant get him off my mind... i dont know what do anymore...we were together for almost 2 years.. he was like my best friend...and now he's on facebook like everyday even at night, he posts pictures of him on his page and constantly changing his statuses saying how he feels great and stuff. i dont know if he knows if i blocked him or not.. my friends keep telling me that he's only trying to make me mad and jealous. i wonder if he misses me and still loves me..i miss him..

[John R]

If you like drama and insanity keep seeing him. But if you want to find a trusted mature friend, keep looking. It sounds like you like insanity. He will be a perfectly insane match. Many days of misery to you and yours.

[Amanda V]

Naturally being with someone so long you develop a connection, even if it wasn't a great one. Give it some time, you can get over this. He's just trying to make you jealous because he's realizing now that you don't need him. All I can say is you can either try to talk to him and risk him smooth talking you into falling for him again OR you can move on. It's hard, but you can do it with time! Good luck

[tinygame546]

you deffinetly need to to get back together with him but u should know your going to break it off later you love him but your not in love with him and you miss him because your not quite ready to let him out of your life yet. this is going to get really rough unless you find the strength to let him go =[ good luck

[Missy]

he sounds so immature and not even close to being ready for marriage. If one stupid little fight sends him into a tantrum like that then how is he going to act when you have a fight about something serious. You fight in a relationship and that's normal. The way he acts isn't normal. He was trying to throw a pity party for himself. That is ridiculous he using facebook like a child to be spiteful. If and that's a big IF you get back together I would have a long engagement and I would do counseling together before you even get married. He has issues he needs to figure out.