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Having problems with 13 year old boyfriend?
11-09-2012, 01:32 PM
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Having problems with 13 year old boyfriend?
Hey everyone. So my boyfriend and I are both 13. I just deleted my Facebook, and his profile pic is of us two kissing. He hasn't deleted, and we haven't had an official breakup. We go to the same school, and he hadn't been at school since Wednesday because of a trip. And on Tuesday night, I made myself "single" on FB, and I didn't even break up with him live. Plus I haven't talked to him since Wednesday in general. So anyways, right before I shut down my FB (Wednesday night) I got a message from one of his ex girlfriends saying that "He asked her for nudes, and that he was stupid. Lol."
I felt extremely hurt inside, and I really thought he loved me. But that's not all. Everyone from my old school said he's cheating on me with a girl a year a year older than us, she was a really good friend of mine, and his profile picture was him and I still kissing. And I feel really hurt because I looked up his name and the picture was still up there. And we held hands and stuff on Wednesday. I even have proof he cheated on me, because the girl he's cheating on me with showed me the messages. I've been his longest relationship.
Oh, and also, I found out that he views a lot of porn videos.
Please help me? How should I tell him that I know he's cheating on me, and what should I do ? Thanks Smile

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11-09-2012, 01:40 PM
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Please you are just 13! Look for a boyfriend in high school. That's when guys are at least a little mature. Make sure to look for one that is a sophomore. Learn to win and lose.

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11-09-2012, 01:40 PM
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Talk to your parents about this; they will explain to you where you are going wrong. In my views, you should be in a relationship once you are 15 complete. Best of luck. Things will be ok; don't worry. Smile)

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11-09-2012, 01:40 PM
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Wah.....wah....wah....wah....wah....

You're THIRTEEN..................



"Facebook"....

You're already stoooopid from the "Zuckerberg's Folly"....and you're THIRTEEN.........



Here's a hint....YOU will have many more problems of much GREATER importance in your life to whine about.....go talk to MOMMY and DADDY first......
Come back and whine later when you have some real issues.....
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11-09-2012, 01:40 PM
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Just confront him and tell him to never show you his face again. He sounds immature. Well you can't blame it on him..guys are like that at such a young age. I've been there, so trust me, it's not worth it at all. Enjoy your time with your girls instead of being sad over a guy. Many guys will come into your life and each one will hurt you but you have to learn from it. After 5 years you'll probably be laughing at whatever happened (which is a huge issue for you right now) and life would have more complications then and you'll miss this time of school. So just enjoy it with your friends without any 'major guy complications' since it's not worth the trouble!
Live your life, study well..enjoy and good luck Smile
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11-09-2012, 01:40 PM
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No offense, but you're 13 for godsakes!! You're not in love, he's not in love, this is just a schoolyard crush. I don't think it can really be called a relationship. You're children!! But yeah, this guy's a total jerk, so seriously break up with him, no matter what he says. A thirteen yo little boy watching porn? That's just disgusting and wrong. He's cheating? He needs a reality check. He thinks he's being such a player, but really he's just being a d*ck. My advise is to break up and also get his other gf to do the same. He doesn't deserve either of you. Oh yeah, and make sure you do it face to face. He needs to get the message loud and clear, b*tch slap him if you have to. But definitely don't stay. You deserve better.

Hope this helps kido xoxo
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11-09-2012, 01:40 PM
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Love? Relationship? You two don't even know what these really mean yet. You're only 13 and nowhere near understainding love and relationships. Just date and have fun. You're too young for any serious things. By his actions of wanting nude pictures from girls and watching porn, you can tell he's only interested in doing sexual thing with either you or anyone else who will let him do things sexually. Drop him. He's no good for you. And just date around with a few guys to have fun and learn more about what they are like. Don't worry about love and such for a few years yet.
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11-09-2012, 01:40 PM
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dont get upset or anything but you are too young to be having a boyfriend at your age your still learning about yourself and how to deal with your emotions im much older and am still learning myself you need not to be with this boy he isnt good and is gonna end up hurting you wait until your older to date and just focus on bein young and doing good in choola and having fun with friends when you get involved with boys at a young age it cvan really be emotionally damaging later on.
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