She's not interested, is she?

[Areos]

- Sorry for the long read but there's a lot of info here -

She and I volunteer at the same place. We both go pretty often. The first day I worked she sat by me while we were working. We talked a bit so I friended her on facebook. The next time I saw her, I told her I noticed she did the same club that I did only at a different school. We talked about that for a while because I played her school in that club and won. She also made a comment about noticing when she creeped through my facebook pictures.

We saw each other on the weekend though because we were going to the same tailgate. She kind of talked to me but she seemed more interested in talking with all the other girls there.

However, the four or five times we volunteered at the same time, she would always try and sit near me even when she could have chosen other places to sit.

Yesterday, we volunteered someplace else with a third friend. Afterwards, we all went out to eat (fast food place). The third friend ordered first and I ordered last. She waited for me to finish my order before going to get our drinks. At the table, she sits right next to me as opposed to the other person. She started talking about her ex-bf and how he was in the club I was in at their high school. She said that I might've faced him in a competition. I went through my pictures from the compeititon on my phone and showed her and I didn't face him. (She brought her ex up which makes me think she isn't interested, but I beat his team???)

Things seemed to be going well. I had planned to do some more volunteering with both of them afterwards but something else came up with a group of people I rarely see so I said I had to go. She started inquiring about what I was going to do.I told her that someone texted me about going someplace but I wasn't sure who exactly because I didn't have their name in my phone. I said I don't really give my phone number out so it has to be someone I know and the fact that they mentioned people I know. I asked if she was going to volunteer on Sunday and she said she wasn't sure. When I went to left, she seemed rather uncaring like she wasn't happy or something.

On Sunday, she shows up to volunteer. She asked how the thing with my friends went and I said it went well. We kind of talked a bit. There was this other guy there who was new and she immediatley went up and asked for his number (right in front of me). As well, when we were breaking into groups to go volunteer, she chose him as her parnter. Granted, both her and I volunteered before so she really couldn't have chosen me to begin with. On the car ride over, we talked a bit so it isn't like she's mad at me or something.

Today, she came again and sat near me. I think I caught her staring. I was looking down at a paper and then looked up real quickly and she looked away quickly. I saw she was looking at me before I looked up. We talked a bit and it was great. However she mentioned something about not having a man in her life and I though it was a wierd thing to mention. THen she was telling me about a guy she was texting in Canada, who some political things cause he likes American politics.

After reading this, doesn't it sound like she's not interested though? However, she always sits next to me when there's so many other places to sit when we go anywhere and its so confusing.

[Arabella]

She probably just sees you as a guy friend, and he must of found out that you thought she likes you, and maybe felt a little weird about it, but it seems like she might just want you as a friend.

[G]

For future reference,don't make your questions that long. No one will read them.

Anyways, she is probably playing the jealousy card. She was jealous you went out (potentially with another girl) and so she returned the favor by talking to the new guy. Just casually add into the conversation you havent been interested in any girls at your school or club thing. Good luck.

[M]

I think she's interested! She seems like she was waiting for you to make the first move. You got a text from a 'friend' who's name you don't know then told her you don't give out your number. That's why she may have seemed a bit off for a couple of days.
Just because she is talking/texting other guys doesn't mean she's not interested in you, they could just be friends.
Find out, ask for her number and give her yours. Meet somewhere social though first, like with other friends or something and see how it goes.
Girls can't read minds, although we are good at pretending sometimes ;-) Let her know if you like her.