Pretty long to read but please take the time. I need advice, i dont know what i did wrong. Ill answer yours?

[Georgina]

We started talking then one day we kissed, and I liked him a lot, and I stopped liking him because
he was too controlling, asking "What are we" already, so I got scared off, and we stayed friends, but then a couple days later we kissed again, we really liked each other so it was hard to move on.

About three weeks ago we talked on the phone and we said we'll stay friends, and if in a month we don't have anyone, and we still like each other, we'll date. A week after that, I find out he's had a thing with this girl for like three weeks..... And three weeks ago is when we kissed and we weren't just friends. So now I've seen him at the metro, but I totally ignore him.

And two weeks ago he came and sat at the table with me, my friend, and his friend.. And I just put my earphones in and didn't look at or talk to him. Then I kept seeing him around the metro that day and he gave me this weird/awkward smile.

And I smiled in a weird way back and kept walking. But my friend was telling me that at the table it looked like he felt bad.. Anyway, that day two weeks ago I posted a pretty picture of a view, and I wrote I was with two guys and my best friend.. And he liked the picture... Why? He never does, why do you think he did? Anyway I'm waiting for him to apologize, and I know he's really gunna miss me... And i don't think he knows that i know he had a thing with a girl for two weeks while we did.. that's what i'm upset about..

Also, that fb post with the picture was to make him jealous, and he liked it... Lol ugh! This is so upsetting, i like him SO much and i want him back, but him and that girl still have a thing. But! My best friend goes to school with her, and she told me that him and that girl have liked each other for like four years.. and it never worked out because she's so complicated and him too. So me and my best friend doubt it's going to work out for them.

And she's always trying to get into my business.. I texted him last week i think saying "heey, sorry i've been ignoring you lately.. i'm just so pissed" And he never answered.. So my friend told me that she talked to him and asked him if he was coming to my party, and he said yeah why, and she said because you guys don't talk, and you never answered her text and he said his ipod is screwed up & he's not getting any texts. (which is a lie because my friend texted him and he answered.)

Oh and that girl he has a thing with, told me they had something. I had a halloween party last saturday, and he said a month ago or so that he booked off his shift so he could come. turns out, a week ago before the party he at least asked my friend 5 times in a couple days when the party was.. and i asked him also, and he said yeah he thinks he's coming. The night of the party at around 5pm, i find out through his friend that he cant go because he's working.. Because someone wanted to have the night off so he took it for him. Was it on purpose??

Because he said he was coming and he kept asking my friends about it. Also, he never even bothered answer my text a week ago saying "heey we don't talk any more.. sorry i was ignoring a couple weeks ago, i was so upset." And he didn't even bother messaging me saying sorry i couldn't make it to your party. (I messaged him that on facebook, and he was posting stuff & didn't answer.)

Anyway.. I hangout with his friend last week after the party and his friend called him with my phone, but he wasn't there, he was at the mall so when he got off the phone, his friend said to me "Let's go to the mall!!" I asked why, and he said he wants to be seen with me by him. Then he texts him with my phone, saying "Hey this is ____, i just wanted to know if we're hanging out soon, ill text you when i get home, bye!" -He never answered.

And yeah, then his friend told me that the day after the party he talked to him at school, and his friend said "You should have came to the party!" And my guy said "I had work.. what did you guys do?" And his friend said "It was so much fun!! i slept at her house.." And then my guy starts punching him playfully.. NEW NEWS.

Two nights ago i was with my three friends and we went outside and he was there with four of his friends.. it was so awkward, and he didn't even smile or say hi to me. But he'd look at me sometimes, no smile though. And so i talked ot his friend yesterday and he told me that he talked to him. His friend said do you talk to her(me) anymore? And he said no. And his friend asked why, and he said "Because whenever she tries to talk to me she started an argument." And it's true.. I've been saying in ever text that im pissed. What do i do? I want him back

[Anna]

Its time to let go and move on. It seems like he doesn't know what he wants. It sounds like hes playing games. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. Don't dwell on this guy anymore and go find someone who will appreciate you. Good luck!

[Demi]

I'm not going to lie, I think he still likes you! You know what boys are like they NEVER the first to say sorry, I know its hard but you should ask him, what went wrong! And ask him if he still likes you and if he asks you first tell him what you really feel! Show him, your feelings!
Hope I helped!

[Taylor]

this happens, you get attacthed and you want somebody but you cant have them.. i loose a lot of people im close to and we knew each other for less then half a year and had over 200.000 messages. If you want him back, your going to have to tell him how you feel, i would show you some things i wrote her, ( im a guy ) to get her back. ( she was a pretened sister, we were bestfriends and then she said i was a bro. ) the last night i spent with her was in the living room on the couch while everyone was in the room asleep, we kissed then.. when she moved we diddnt talk much, and i want her back as a sis, we still talk occasionally like a week ago, but not the constaint 27/7, I know im talking bro and sis, but its the same thing your going through, you just dont call him your bro. If you want an example of messages i sent her one night, contact me through mail. I Sent her 3 over-multi media messages. If you tell him how you feel and ask for a chance, the he might give it a try. You just got to be out and honest, and dont be mean about anything, dont try to make him jealous, try to make him feel guilty for not giving you a chance. If you do get to date him, show him so much love and care, and be a nice girl, and dont cheat, and hill want to spend a while with you. This was a long thing to read, so i decided i would reply with a decent answer, ( Length wise ) id like to help you and try to get you with him again, so again, mail me, or something please, i hate seeing this happen, its sad, i know how it feels and i dont want to see it happen to somebody else, goodluck, and i wish for the best, also , do not try starting arugments with his friends or the other girl of intrest, Mail me keep in touch

[starwberry]

You can't have it both ways. It sounds like you weren't interested in him until someone else was. You were acting like, "I don't want you, but no one else can have you either." Then you treated him like it was his fault. I don't blame him for not speaking to you.

[Norris]

You sound a little like a stalker :/ just start briefly chatting to him now and again, things may then move forward.