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I just read a suicide note on my boyfriends facebook page?
11-09-2012, 01:37 PM
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I just read a suicide note on my boyfriends facebook page?
I mean what should I do? I was looking around his profile to see if he had uploaded some pictures of us that he said he had tagged me in. That is when I came across his about me section and it said "lost hope" I click on that and there was a long description with a suicide note on it saying he loves me and that he is sorry but he has a suicide date and everything. Attached to the bottom of that was a picture of him where you can see his arms with tons of scars and scratches that I had never seen before.

I had seen this "lost hope" post on his profile for a while I just never bothered to click on it until today I did by accident. I knew he was bipolar I just never knew he was this suicidal or that he had plans to end his life. I could never live without him in my life. He means the world to me. I have no clue how to help him cause I asked to help him once before when I noticed he was depressed and he told me to drop it cause he was fine but now I know he is not. We are both bisexual by the way. What should I do?

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11-09-2012, 01:45 PM
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It's his life, if he wants to end it, let him.

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11-09-2012, 01:45 PM
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dump him
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11-09-2012, 01:45 PM
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Like Steven said.. It's his life.. That's a stupid choice but let him. Just tell him that if he does it. Then all the people who bullied him will win. They want to hurt him and if he kills himself they will win.
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11-09-2012, 01:45 PM
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Call the police. It's not the first time a suicide note has been posted on facebook and it won't be the last. You have to tell someone about it or nothing will happen. What's more important your friends life or your friendship?

He needs to be watched 24/7 if he is thinking about committing suicide.
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11-09-2012, 01:45 PM
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He sounds a bit out of his mind. If he really wanted to kill himself, he wouldn't leave a note on his facebook page for a very long time. People who truly commit suicide usually leave notes right when they do it. Honestly he sounds like he is just screaming out for attention. I'd let his parents know what's up with him...Maybe they can help him better.
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11-09-2012, 01:45 PM
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As someone who once seriously wanted to end their life I'd say just be there. Don't try and push the issue because they may think you are only sticking around because of their state of mind. Instead let him know as often as you can how much you love him. How devastating his loss would be to you. How much that would upset you. If you know about others who care about him,friends or family ask them to express how much they care about him to him. You don't need to tell them details. If they ask just say I'm worried and I have the feeling he'd like hearing it. Don't saying anything else.
The thing that kept me from following through was the realization was that there were people who would miss me and I couldn't do that to them. So I forced myself to stick around and things got better. If he sticks around he may reach a point where he finally gets the help he needs.
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11-09-2012, 01:45 PM
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Be with him. Try to give him something to live for. Acknowledge the note in person or face to face, and sincerely try to talk to him. You also might want to alert a psychologist or a family member of his. Of course, he won't appreciate that, but it's for his own good. He needs help and hope, and suicide won't solve that.
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