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Need advice my friends hang out with my ex?
11-09-2012, 01:41 PM
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Need advice my friends hang out with my ex?
Two of my closest friends have hung out with my ex gf multiple times after we broke up. She invites them because she got their numbers when she met them through me. The most recent time was a party and I found out on facebook from one of their statuses (which got deleted a day later), but when my friend talked on the phone to me, he mentioned how he went to a great party but when I mentioned who's it was he said my ex's older brothers. I mentioned her and he lied and said she wasn't there. Yet on Facebook I read she was there... And her friends were there... So why would her older brother party with his little sisters friends...

I haven't talked to my two best friends for a month now and really don't want to ever again. Me and my ex broke up on a good note, but then she started some drama and dumb games after we broke up which made me feel really really mad. I feel betrayed by these two friends and I've hinted it to them before but they don't even care they just see it as she is their friend too. Yeah call me a p*ssy but I feel betrayed and feel like sh**. Can anyone on this forum please lend me your advice?

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11-09-2012, 01:49 PM
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tell those snatches that he is your ex for a reason. your friends sound like typical gossiping chicken head little torta queens. Just be happy you arnt them and no longer have them in your life anymore

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11-09-2012, 01:49 PM
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Honestly, this is a personal problem. How you see your ex, and how you see your friends. You are still mad at your ex, and feel like your friends (being your best friends) should act the same way you do and not associate with her. But that's not fair. She IS their friend too, whether you have a problem with it or not. You can either forgive your ex for the way she acted after the break up, or keep being irritated. They haven't betrayed you, but you're too mad to see that right now. It's a you thing, not a them thing. Just because she is your ex, doesn't mean you can't associate with her like normal, and it doesn't mean other people you know can't either. Like I said, you can either forgive your ex and live your life normally with your friends, or say goodbye to them. You choose.
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