my girl wanted to be friends on facebook why ignore me?

[Ben]

She was my ex, she wanted to work things out she hasn't talk to me, I ask her whats the problem, 7 days ignoring me , 2 weeks ignoring me on facebook, did I cross the line calling her a bitch
We were broken up for 7 months, she put photos of her self up for me, but has answered my questions, I know shes not dating she wants to met me, why do woman act this way , cold and hot
We broke up because I betrayed the first time in my life, we haven't seem eachother in 9 months

[Dee in CO]

You fell for a pretty old trick. She doesn't want to be your friend, she just wants to keep tabs on you to make sure that her life since breaking up with you is better than yours. Some people aren't satisfied with just breaking up--they have to win the breakup by knowing their exes are miserable.

If you want her attention, start talking about a new girl and how she's so much better than all your exes (particularly the last one) that you can't believe you ever settled for so little. That will get her talking to you. Then you can unfriend her.

[yoyoyomynameisjoe]

She is playing a game with you. This game is called a hard-to-get. She wants herself to get all tangled in your head. She wants you to like her and then she'll play hard to get if you ask her out and she will either say uhhhh... ill think about it, or ill text you later. She is playing with your head. You dont like her right? dont. get over her! See, here's what i did the guy i like had an ask.fm (where you ask/tell) people anonymous question so i sent an anonymous statement saying that his annoying and that he can go f**** himself. Now i am so over him. I feel so much better now, now i hate the guy.