What would you do if your rather spoiled teenage daughter....?

[missdarkstar]

sounds like you'll be in trouble.You should never, EVER use credit cards without permission especially with all the fraud out here. You just described a concerned father.....they are actually hard to find these days......some kids dont get clothing budgets, so you may actually be very lucky......boarding school may be his way of feeling like he's giving you a better oportunity for you to focus on school and could also be his way of being over protective.....same thing with the myspace. So many people are trying to meet people they met on myspace, that probably why he doesnt want you to have it....he doesnt want you to be abducted. its usually the ones who think they wont be who end up getting targeted by perverts and killers. ............Just sounds like he's trying to protect you and has your well being in mind. cant really stop him from doing that. he wouldnt be able to forgive himself if something happened to you....i'm sure

[gussie]

apparently your parents have already failed at raising you. I don't think they should inspect your wardrobe before you go out. If you want to dress like a whore go ahead if you get knocked up you don't have to worry about boarding school and a decent education you can just hop on welfare and be EXTREMELY destitute, bad things happen to spoiled ungrateful children. My girlfriend thinks the world of you I feel your personality leaves a lot to be desired. unless you plan on being a leech for the rest of your life I feel you may be unprepared for the real unfair things that will undoubtedly come to fruition. This is constructive criticism. I 've been reading your questions for months and feel you need a change in your life . Good luck

[Herbie]

oh, god, sorry lori, he was mad at me yesterday, and remember when my account was suspended a month ago or so, I had to use his account to get back to your account so I could add you onto my back up account. You can block him if you want to, he doesn't know how to do it. lol. He got on my ass about our boys cause the 9yr old is getting an attitude.
You should be grateful that your daddy is involved in your life and actually cares, and that he shows it. My dad wasn't ever home, he was at the bar or working all week 500 miles away We never talked unless I was having problems with math, which was his speciality, to which he's call me a dumb effin kid.
. Your daddy just needs to know that you are safe from any kind of harm. His way of love is protecting. The only rules are 1 and 2 that i strongly disagree with, the others are ,ehhh, kinda ok, but there could be wiggle room He love you too much is all. And you may see it as a curse, but its better than being mentally abused and never feeling loved.

[palmyrafan]

Well, you certainly made the right first step. You admitted you are the problem. Way to go.

1) Stop being a spoiled brat. You may think it is cute, but I can assure you that you are the only one who does.
2) When I backtalked my parents at your age, I ended up on my butt
3) Wow, a clothing budget huh - with whose money? His?
4) "Forcing" you to go to boarding school. Perhaps there is a genuine reason for this like - maybe they can offer discipline and structure that he feels you are lacking.
5) As for the wardrobe inspection - you better believe it. Why show everything? You really think that's cool?

In short - get over yourself hon. The best guys don't care how hip your clothes are, respect girls that actually cover themselves instead of flaunting it and most want girls who have manners, can stay on a budget (especially with other people's money) and don't have a mouth like a sailor.

Your dad has your number girl and he is holding you accountable for your actions.

I would only be concerned if he didn't care enough to "inspect" you or monitor your actions. Be thankful your father loves you as much as he does.